Rules spaming PMs

Discussion in 'Support & Feedback' started by abboodeh, Jun 3, 2010.

  1. #1
    Hi

    so if someone posted a thread (WTB sites)
    and i sent him a PM offering my site would this considered Spaming???

    one member here posted that he wants to buy file hosting sites, so i contacted him wwith PM offering my site, he replied to me (reported you for spamming me)

    so replying to his thread would be unacceptable because i'd be spaming the thread, and if i contact him by PM i'd be spaming too?

    P.S let this thread be a record in case i got an infection for spamming PMs!
     
    abboodeh, Jun 3, 2010 IP
  2. chtdatweb

    chtdatweb Well-Known Member

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    #2
    It's unlikely you will get an infection but an infraction is well possible lol :) back to what you were saying;

    Did the wtb thread ask for people to pm or to reply in the thread, maybe your best approach should have been a post in the thread say something like " I have a site for x money if you are interested, details are blah blah blah URL available via pm only" this would also enable feedback via itrader on the sale/purchase as well (if actually sold of course)
     
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  3. abboodeh

    abboodeh Well-Known Member

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    #3
    lol yeah it's infraction i don't know why i wrote infection loool
    anyway
    believe it or not, i got around 7 infractions in the past for posting such things!

    well, he already spammed my PM so i see no harm in displaying his name

    this is his thread :
    http://forums.digitalpoint.com/showthread.php?t=1818662
    he clearly said in his thread (PM me)

    so i Pmed him this:

    then he reported me as SPAM and told me that he did so!
     
    abboodeh, Jun 3, 2010 IP
  4. chtdatweb

    chtdatweb Well-Known Member

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    For a start, if you were to write the example I gave replacing "blah blah blah" with some actual substance for example, alexa ranking, visits, SERPS etc that will not get you infracted i'm sure. However writing things like "pm me", "pm sent", "I'm interested" etc... Will lure an infraction.

    In terms of reporting to you for spamming and how that will get dealt with is best addresed by a mod.
     
    chtdatweb, Jun 3, 2010 IP
  5. sarahk

    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    #5
    We get a lot of reports of pm spam that are simply someone taking a punt and offering something slightly different from what was requested.

    My advice to anyone sending a private message in response to a thread is to include a link back to the thread.

    In this instance you would say "I have a site that I believe fits your criteria because..."

    That clearly shows why you are sending the private message and that its not spam. It may not be what he wants, but its not spam.
     
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  6. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    You should have placed a reference link to that thread in BST in your PM.
    That way you are making the PM legitimate even if you are failing to fulfill the criteria.
     
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  7. abboodeh

    abboodeh Well-Known Member

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    i always do this but with this guy i don't know why i didn't...
    ok thanks guys for the helpful tips.

    so in the end, will i get this infraction or not for this current case?
     
    abboodeh, Jun 4, 2010 IP
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    chtdatweb Well-Known Member

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    I very much doubt it, but you will have to wait and see. Even if you do, 1 point aint gonna hurt you, no one can see it but you anyway.
     
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    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    Except that spamming is 5 points that last 6 months!
     
    sarahk, Jun 4, 2010 IP
  10. abboodeh

    abboodeh Well-Known Member

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    i can't afford a 5 points now i'm already 7 ppoints:(

    just to be clear, i've reported that user as spam too and explained my story so that i won't get these points
     
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    roopajyothi Active Member

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    Always Reply him with the thread quoted with PM
    Its stays from taking your PM as spam
     
    roopajyothi, Jun 4, 2010 IP
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    soulravager Active Member

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    #12
    This would be breaking the forums rules since it is forbiden to post just comments you have to PM him ,but on the other hand that might be considered PM spamming... Beh those rules are blurry on some things...
     
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    roopajyothi Active Member

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    Right!
    So only we need to Quote in the PM for reference else the OP may misunderstood!
     
    roopajyothi, Jun 5, 2010 IP
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    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    I would say thats the main thing. However you still can't say "I've seen your thread looking for an article writer, want to buy my site".
     
    sarahk, Jun 6, 2010 IP