I have entirely changed the looks and forum software to Vbulletin too. Please review : - http://www.teenhut.net http://www.teenhut.net/forums Wordpress is on the Main Page and Vbulletin on the Forum Do you feel that the forum opens very slow? Is it skin problem? I have converted from SMF right now! I hope that the Wordpress theme looks good?
Wordpress seems OK, although it loads too slow at my computer. Maybe to compress better your images? Although you have white middle frame and black left and right frames which might look distracting it doesn't look distracting to me. Maybe because my montior has black border and mostly text is white... But anyway light blue color which "fades" would make it much better. Forum looks just fine. Your site theme seems interesting and if you do some promotion it might work just fine.
Love the flower on the main page. I saved it too from the site that offered it and liked putting it in some designs The forums are OK, try tomake the site and the forums look the same.