is marriage is necessary for everyone

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  1. joseph.nysa

    joseph.nysa Peon

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    #81
    I think it is important to get married, but now if i look back, i will never suggest any one to get married. LOL
     
    joseph.nysa, Dec 19, 2009 IP
  2. james2007

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    #82
    Why marriage is neccessary for all... there is no reason of marriage, it is only wastage of time and money..
     
    james2007, Dec 19, 2009 IP
  3. googlechick

    googlechick Active Member

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    #83
    I have been married for almost 11 years. It has been a rough road but one I would not trade to be alone.
     
    googlechick, Dec 19, 2009 IP
  4. realistic

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    #84
    Yes! You need to marry in the right time and as long as you want to build your own family. Maybe your dad wants a baby from you Or maybe his testing you out if you really like to marry someone.
     
    realistic, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  5. Partizan

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    #85
    I do not think that it's so important nowadays
     
    Partizan, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  6. iwillguide

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    #86
    There is no need !.....
     
    iwillguide, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  7. Partizan

    Partizan Peon

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    #87
    I agree with you!
     
    Partizan, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  8. yinlinli

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    #88
    yes, in my opinion, if someone never get married , his or her life will be incomplete.
     
    yinlinli, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  9. capstonic

    capstonic Well-Known Member

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    #89
    Its not necessary but if will do then you will get one who loves u a lot.
     
    capstonic, Apr 8, 2010 IP
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    #90
    being married = sux
     
    .rko., Apr 8, 2010 IP
  11. clbyodo

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    #91
    Marriage is necessary for everyone because everybody in life needs a partner.
     
    clbyodo, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  12. olddocks

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    #92
    glad i found this thread! i am nearing 30 from india and i too have pressure from my parents for getting married. i am not confident and have absolutely no interest as of now and i hate responsibilities that comes with marriage. Everywhere i go - not having a partner is so embarrassing that people keep on asking again and again. This is so frustrating. i know very well that i dont get along with others and i am really worried about broken marriage.

    I am denying my parents request everytime and they keep telling me - who will look after me after them? my parents both are above 55yrs of age. i couldnt answer their question. i have no problems financially.
     
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    olddocks, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  13. mvch

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    #93
    My idea is , it is not necessary to get married, even have a partner. personally I don't trust women. I am not that old, but I never get married. I don't need a girlfriend, wife, and kids. loneliness is great. I am not gonna lose it.
     
    mvch, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  14. crliquid

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    #94
    of course..... married is necessary for everyone
     
    crliquid, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  15. snorkel

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    #95
    I would have to be pretty damn sure about someone to commit to spending my entire life with them--I definitely could not, right now, make a decision like that. In general I don't think marriage is an essential social institution, and personally I don't think I'll ever opt to be bound by law to someone... that would be very limiting.
     
    snorkel, Apr 8, 2010 IP
  16. jinmin

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    #96
    depends on individual, some live happier without wife/husband or gf/bf. Some feel that having a partner will make their life even more meaningful.
     
    jinmin, Apr 9, 2010 IP
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    #97
    People fall in love and then they want to marry.
     
    camellia, Apr 9, 2010 IP
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    #98
    if u see marriage by islamic way then it s compulsory n sunnah 2.forced marriages brings only problems.
     
    maha123, Apr 9, 2010 IP
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    #99
    No. I don't want to get married.
     
    Spendelow, Apr 9, 2010 IP
  20. STAR Cruiser

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    #100
    Hmm.. Till 30 years you have enjoyed your own living style. Now I think you have to listen your parents words. Make them happy and by the way doing marriage is not the bad or frustrating step :p
     
    STAR Cruiser, Apr 9, 2010 IP