Love marriage or arrange marriage

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  1. dlrsuperman

    dlrsuperman Active Member

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    #21
    Arranged marriage is a sad custom that I hope will one day be gone. Love marriages are obviously preferred for a lot of people, although some still like the idea of arranged marriage, which is mind boggling.
     
    dlrsuperman, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  2. X P S

    X P S Well-Known Member

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    #22
    make your 'Love marriage' arranged one by your wisdom ;) so in this way you and your family, both will be happy :)
     
    X P S, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  3. bodzila

    bodzila Peon

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    #23
    i also vote for love marriage...
     
    bodzila, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  4. hondenvoer

    hondenvoer Peon

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    #24
    LOL

    i think arranged married CAN be fun, don't know if u can take that seriously.

    maybe if you're really desperate :(
     
    hondenvoer, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  5. YOU&I

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    #25
    Arrange marriage are more successful.......................
     
    YOU&I, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  6. saurabhj

    saurabhj Banned

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    #26
    Arrange Marriage = Suicide
    Love Marriage = Self Suicide

    Decision is yours. I've done Self Suicide :D
     
    saurabhj, Dec 21, 2009 IP
  7. yachi_5

    yachi_5 Well-Known Member

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    #27
    Love Marriage...THE BEST.
     
    yachi_5, Dec 21, 2009 IP
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    #28
    I believe in love come arranged marriage.
     
    willamrudin, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  9. Sammy04

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    #29
    If you guys don't know, let me tell u 1 fact.

    Love marriages have high divorce rate then arrange marriages.

    I don't know why, but that's the truth.
     
    Sammy04, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  10. mukeshgbg

    mukeshgbg Member

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    #30
    I will prefer love marriage:)
     
    mukeshgbg, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  11. jfaraday12

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    #31
    Depends I'd like to have a choice in the matter but if the only choice was love I could easily opt for a business arrangement that includes wealth, common interests of the whole family etc. You could learn to love each other, love is usually a reaction when you are providing ones basic needs and nurturing them. That is why kids love their parents.
     
    jfaraday12, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  12. deathrow15

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    #32
    i prefer love marriage but arranged marriage is security that a girl your parents will like
     
    deathrow15, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  13. powerlifer

    powerlifer Active Member

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    #33
    arranged marriage is insane imo, getting married to a woman who you most likely arent attracted, love or have anything in common with just seems silly for the sake of pleasing your family.
     
    powerlifer, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  14. rajesh.ejob

    rajesh.ejob Well-Known Member

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    #34
    Its not love marriage or arrange marriage......... there should be true and deep love between couples after marriage till the death..
    Love marriage has more possibility to get that......
     
    rajesh.ejob, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  15. JoeyFlackery

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    #35
    Do people actually marry for love any more or for common goals, business opportunity, companionship, to carry on their legacy to sign the deal on kids already existing. You should chose what will logically work out the best, love would be a nice addition.
     
    JoeyFlackery, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  16. mamedesign

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    #36
    i love marriage..,ilove my wife,and i love my son....mariage is wonderfull think for me.
     
    mamedesign, Dec 22, 2009 IP
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    #37
    I think first arrange then do love with your partner.
     
    jamesmilner, Dec 22, 2009 IP
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    #38
    i like arraenge marriage beacuse it is very trustful
     
    arseoservices, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  19. Awan-G

    Awan-G Active Member

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    #39
    Both are good

    but in the case of love marriage the love should not go for a long way

    and in the case of arrange the person should know something before the marriage.
     
    Awan-G, Dec 22, 2009 IP
  20. diowilda

    diowilda Active Member

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    #40
    I prefer Love marriage
     
    diowilda, Dec 23, 2009 IP