Hello Everyone I'm wanting to become a better person physically, mentally and spiritually. I'm very ambitious, but some times I let fear stop me from doing things I want to do in life. How could I go about becoming the person who I want to be? Is it basically focus and dedication that gets you where you want to be? Thanks, Scott
If you want to become a better person physically, all you need to do is hit the weight room three or four times per week
No, Scott. Face your fears. What are you afraid of? Heights? Bungy jump. Water? Learn to swim. Committment? Buy a plant. Your physical strength is only icing on the cake. Whatever you are running from is the key to being a stronger person.
What if it's not in your nature to be tough, the best? If there's one thing I've learnt from watching (and getting rid of) a mate of mine it's trying to become someone you aren't plays hell with your sanity and ultimately leads to people mocking you or your mental destruction. Go to the gym, work out.. (it's not nessasarily about being tough).. grow your confidence and let it mature with age and you will be who you are just with more confidence, and a tougher person mentally. Confidence takes a hell of a lot of time to develop in some people (I'm only really beginning to be fairly confident in myself at age 23 and there's still a heck of a long way to go) but it is a natural process matey.. don't try to force it or become something you aren't.. it only leads to mental disaster and a loss of self and you may end up on the verge of suicide! Nothing to stop you putting on a bit of muscle, getting stronger and feeling better about yourself though! I'd be cautious about wanting to change who you are - you don't come across as a 'tough guy' nor do you look like one even though you do have a skin-head.. be YOU mate... I imagine that's a very loving caring person so let your confidence build around that as time goes on and you will become a very strong person emotionally, in the mind etc.. lots of ways of been tough asides from psychical strength (but why not get built too! ! Fuck fear.. just do it. If it comes to business I'm the most wreckless (not overly to the point of stupidity) bastard there is. I couldn't give a shit if my ideas fail, my websites fail...... I'll do them because I know there's a chance they may take off and that's all I need to spur me on.. I've pissed away over $80,000 on various business ideas and have been bankrupt....but boy if my last offline business suceeded I would of been minted....who cares I made a few mistakes and it went fucked-up...... least I know what not to do next time I try to make some cash offline! Keep your eye on why you're doing it and nothing will get you down or get in your way...... it's the end result - however long it takes...persistance... some things take time.....experience....... fuck-ups ... that goes for business AND confidence and YOU as a person too...... and I babble on as per usual! Why do I always reply to your posts with long replies? Oh well.......hope you can take something from it! Pete
Thanks so far for the replies. I guess I should have said more about the "tough" when I say tough I mean like nothing can stop me such as fear, distractions and so on.
talents, focus, dedication, connection, ability to deal with people, and most of all confidence in yourself. all these are important to get you where you wanna be.
Scott if you keep using general chat forum as your shrink your going to end up with more issues than you started with Maybe you should do some national service for a couple of years.
How i can become physically,mentally and spritually tough and challenging personality, plz suggest me some tips regards rajiv singh
It's all in your mind. Money, relationships, friends, family, nothing nor none can do anything about it. You can.