hi mates can u give ur ideas about possessiveness...? if its good no probs if its wrong ,, tell me a way to come out of dat
Well, possessiveness with a certain limit is good, but it could not steal the others identity. If you are too much possessive for your partner, start discussing your issue with him/her. This will make him/her understand about your concern.
Bad at all times. If you truly love someone you will enjoy watching them being free and doing things on their own.
no thats the prob ...she dont like me talking to any girl and and me too like dat only....but she is coming out dat slowly..but i cud not
im aware of speaking with other girls in fornt of her .coz i dont do any thing that hurts her.... that y i want to come out of this possessiveness which will hurt her ..
Its one kind of disease,big problem, hard to overcome it. the person cant be reliable If its a child teach them the importance of freedom and joy of giving
I don't think this is true at all. For some people it is bad, but for others it can be a good thing. My long term partner and I are both incredibly possessive people; sometimes it can be difficult and make us sad; but then we talk, cuddle and we're fine again. It is really only a big problem when only one person is possessive, while the other is the opposite. (In my experience.)
Depends who its towards and the situation like whether the other person finds it appealing or attractive Its ok to make a person feel safe and wanted by letting them know you care but if the other person does not want you to do it than its creepy like stalking So its not a great idea and is more of a reflection of the person doing it and their personality flaws like jealously and insecurity in yourself - if its like a relationship and it ends then possessiveness can lead to some really bad things You can get too focused and over obssessed and not many people would find that an appealing or attractive character trait
i fought with her lot of time coz of being possessive... but soon we begun to chat..but these days im too crazy and possessive about her.... no other way....i think time can answers me
thanks alexispetrov i had a simle when i read this...i think i like being posessive but have to change it for her coz it hurts her sometime
Dude this is YOUR relationship. You need to define and be very clear with your loved one on rules and boundaries. If you are both insecure and possessive then you will need to set rules in place that you can both stick to. These kind of situations are like holding a wet bar of soap. Squeeze too tight and the soap will shoot up in the air. Don't squeeze enough and it will fall through your finger tips. It is natural for humans to be territorial but you must remember trust is a very very important part of the relationship. Make sure you clearly establish your boundaries with your partner.