I used to believe that as long as I can make people around me become happy, I will be happy. So I choose to do the things they like and wish. However, gradually, I find the pressure shouldering on me are too heavy. Neither those I care nor I feel happy. I have to rethink of it now. Maybe I should follow the way as I wish in my dream.
I don't think that perfect happiness is possible. But you can feel good about your life it you believe that it is meaningful somehow. For me, it's the feeling that I'm contributing something of value to society. I don't mean that I want to become the next Martin Luther King. Just that in a small way I want to contribute a few things that people enjoy or find useful and appreciate.
hmm...for me to be happy, i want my family with me, my loved one, my ministry and job and of course, GOD with me, that's all it takes to be happy..
For my love to be happy and living for herself, no matter how and where that might be. It may hurt me like mad depending, but her being happy is my goal and as such would make me the happiest in my soul than anything.
Well there is nothing in this world to make u happy permanently but in these days requirements we need money to be happy and after that love..
Money basically some may think thats shallow, but i find money helps me avoid starvation, freezing or going naked, lol