Do you think buying a house is men's duty?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Susanjia, Jul 17, 2009.

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    Some of my friends think that buying a house is men's duty. I don't think so. House price is very high now in big city.It is quite difficult to buy a house by one person.
    What is your opinion?
     
    Susanjia, Jul 17, 2009 IP
  2. IMPackage

    IMPackage Active Member

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    #2
    If they are a couple, then it's both their duty, since they are going to live in it.
     
    IMPackage, Jul 17, 2009 IP
  3. ЄxDeus™

    ЄxDeus™ Well-Known Member

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    personally if i wasn't going to get married i would buy the house so if anything happened in the relationship she would get jack if i was going to marry her she would need to pay.
     
    ЄxDeus™, Jul 17, 2009 IP
  4. SOULZRIPPER

    SOULZRIPPER Well-Known Member

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    The person with the cash is the one responsible.
     
    SOULZRIPPER, Jul 17, 2009 IP
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    Atulmyboss Banned

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    #5
    I think you are right . everything depends on situation , if she is also working in office or running businesses then she must help you in that but if she is house wife then you are the one for this job .
     
    Atulmyboss, Jul 17, 2009 IP
  6. usman.gaggo2

    usman.gaggo2 Peon

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    #6
    it may be or not be.
    it is not always the duty of men to buy house,
    both men and women should do their best to purchase a house.
    on the other hand parents should also do effective help do this major task.
     
    usman.gaggo2, Jul 17, 2009 IP
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    cricketer Banned

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    not neccessary one can live in rented house.i would suggest not to buy yr own house but insead of it u should invest yr money in bussiness. it wil give u direction of progress.
     
    cricketer, Jul 17, 2009 IP
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    web_hunk Peon

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    #8
    If you are married than its the responsibility of both to buy the house. Otherwise, its too risky for one person to buy it.
     
    web_hunk, Jul 17, 2009 IP
  9. The Villa

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    #9
    I am forced to say that it is not a man's duty. Otherwise I would get into serious trouble with the feminists. Hehe.

    Honestly though I feel more at ease making my husband make the final decision on which house to purchase. I simply do not have the skill when it comes to checking how good a house is. He is an engineer so he should know better.

    Financially, I strongly believe it should be a shared expense
     
    The Villa, Jul 18, 2009 IP
  10. chandan123

    chandan123 Prominent Member

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    depends where you live :)

    asian countries normally have this kind of opinions :D
     
    chandan123, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    #11
    Its a duty for sure!

    Im 21 now and I can never think of putting this load on anyone, my wife or my parents.

    I have already did it myself. Its 80% done now,with all of my hard work and money!

    Its a big job. You need to be a hard worker for that!
     
    Axus Technologies Inc., Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    hbl Well-Known Member

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    #12
    Absolutely not! It's not a man's duty to pay for everything....this is not the 1950's.
     
    hbl, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    #13
    not always
     
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  14. Moses8595

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    I don't think so..But she says her claim is not negotiable.:(
     
    Moses8595, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #15
    When you get married, it's not his or hers money. ;)
     
    dcristo, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    lifeplayer Notable Member

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    #16
    Yes, man shall have responsible to buy house. However, if you not able, then nothing wrong if both of you pay for the house
     
    lifeplayer, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    #17
    It is a norm for Asian that buying house is men's duty.

    And a guy is good (to marry) if he has 5 C's: Car, Credit Card, Condomimium, Cash, CXXX

    *Oops I forgot the last one* Anyone help me? :D
     
    ads2help, Jul 18, 2009 IP
  18. wisdomtool

    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #18
    It is definitely a man's duty to buy the house. But it is both the man's and the woman's duties to pay for it. I would say that the former depends on who is more dominant actually.....
     
    wisdomtool, Jul 18, 2009 IP
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    #19
    Truely Said. According to me, its men's duty to buy the house..
     
    sandeep211499, Jul 18, 2009 IP
  20. Onlinesupplies

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    #20
    Courageously sized man-parts? :D

    On topic though - It's definately not the job of the man to buy a house, it should be a joint venture, with both sides of a couple having a say.
     
    Onlinesupplies, Jul 18, 2009 IP