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I'm a shy guy, what could I do for have a girlfriend?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by howareyou, Jul 6, 2009.

  1. Onlinesupplies

    Onlinesupplies Peon

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    #21
    I'd say your main problem is the same as a lot of people, you don't go to places to meet new people.

    When was the last time you went to somewhere and actualy sat down and met completely new people? And I mean actualy got to know them a bit, had a chat for a while etc?

    That right there is the main problem, if you don't put yourself in these situations you'll never find a girl :)

    Like someone else said if you're really that shy start with online dating, it's a lot easier to get to know someone through MSN and build up to talking to them face to face :)
     
    Onlinesupplies, Jul 7, 2009 IP
  2. TTS

    TTS Peon

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    #22
    Just be yourself and you will find the right person
     
    TTS, Jul 7, 2009 IP
  3. howareyou

    howareyou Peon

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    #23
    Firstly I have some contact with a girl, we have a drink or something like that but next dating I won't be interested in girls that firstly I quite like. I don't know why? Am I a Soon hot, soon cold person? Do you have a suggestion for me.

    Thanks you!
     
    howareyou, Jul 9, 2009 IP
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    gch5185 Peon

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    #24
    Be brave, you don't have to be shy, being shy just brings problems to you. Talk with them through phone call or text. Date them out for movies, for a walk, exercise (jogging, cycling) in the garden. There are so many ways you can think of.
     
    gch5185, Jul 9, 2009 IP
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    wierdo Well-Known Member

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    #25
    Just be yourself. If a girl doesn't like you for yourself, there's no point in having her as a gf.

    You're planning on being broke again? :rolleyes:

    Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. Or something like that, I forgot the quote...
     
    wierdo, Jul 9, 2009 IP
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    leandar Well-Known Member

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    #26
    some tricks from 4chan[​IMG]
     
    leandar, Jul 9, 2009 IP
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    mrdo Well-Known Member

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    #27
    Great invention. I love U man :p
     
    mrdo, Jul 9, 2009 IP
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    yooozy Well-Known Member

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    #28
    yooozy, Jul 9, 2009 IP
  9. harshakiran

    harshakiran Notable Member

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    #29
    Im comming hold them for me:):) i been to bangkok couple of times so many russian sluts around
     
    harshakiran, Jul 10, 2009 IP
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    igtl Peon

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    #30
    dont be shy dear. drinking alcohol is not the way. you have to have some experience on this matter. its better to consult a docter. i mean a specialist. then you will have some ideas from him. dont get ideas of all. as they might direct you to the bad way.

    think twice by your own......

    all the best
     
    igtl, Jul 10, 2009 IP
  11. Brae

    Brae Banned

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    #31
    There's one right woman for every right man out there.

    You just have to find that special lady.
     
    Brae, Jul 10, 2009 IP
  12. Onlinesupplies

    Onlinesupplies Peon

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    #32
    Either that or just pop a few mg of some benzos, that'll have you chatting to the world no problem :p


    ** I don't condone drug abuse :p
     
    Onlinesupplies, Jul 10, 2009 IP
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    avatar33 Well-Known Member

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    #33
    replace f by sh in females. That's what you get in Thailand :D
     
    avatar33, Jul 11, 2009 IP
  14. Merf

    Merf Peon

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    #34
    There's a lot of things you can do. Maybe you should just read the book 'The Game'. That dude went from a zero to hero.
     
    Merf, Jul 11, 2009 IP
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    CyberWorldJobs Peon

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    #35
    I would Say If You Are Sad Be With Your Friends take A break from your normal schedule do something new(something fun),

    Or if you want a girl so Be a friend First then you can be a lover Or So,
    some girls like shy boys but It could be A trap to empty your pockets too so dont behave Shy atleast show off that you are not
     
    CyberWorldJobs, Jul 11, 2009 IP
  16. howareyou

    howareyou Peon

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    #36
    Thanks all! I feel more stronger from your advice, Now I'll go around & make friend with a nice girl:)
     
    howareyou, Jul 11, 2009 IP
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    mike323 Well-Known Member

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    LookItsSam Peon

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    #38
    Don't change your personality at all. If you're shy so be it, there's no point in being uncomfortable and pretending to be an outgoing person when you're not. Ultimately you'll end up unhappy not being you. You can try meeting someone online because usually it's much easier to chat that way.
     
    LookItsSam, Jul 11, 2009 IP
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    jezzz Notable Member

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    #39
    Hmmm! try to make only one because more than one can finish your money soon! so it is advised to have one girl friend at a time :)
     
    jezzz, Jul 11, 2009 IP
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    leandar Well-Known Member

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    #40
    you are not shy, its just you are imagination...!
     
    leandar, Jul 11, 2009 IP