I was wondering if anyone in here uses the law of attraction (the secret) in their life? I have been using it faithfully for going on 4 weeks now and am noticing lots, just wondering what your experiences are?
i'm trying to control my thoughts but still i face some negative thoughts coming on my way... like for example, after this economy crisis, the company business is affected, and therfore they're paying salaries 1 month late, i am going to get married in 3 months, and i need every penny for that, but with the late of salaries this will effect me a LOT! so i'm trying to apply it and attract the feeling of getting salary on time (like it used to) but being an accountant (in the finance Department in the company) judging from what i see in my work getting salary on time will not be acheivable untill maybe end of this year.... and here's the negative thought, in one hand i'm trying to convince my self that everything will be alright i'm trying to attract the idea of financial stability but in the other hand from what i see (as accountant) this will not happen... really i don't know what else should i do.... any advice would be helpful!
Well, for one, stop thinking about getting the salary on time, and start thinking about how you are going to have enough money to be fine. Who cares where its coing from, don't even think about that, just imagine your back account at the amount you would like it to be. Its really a training process in changing your thinking. Check out my post from the other day, I think it might help you, well the whole thing might actually. You need to keep your focus on using this tool, and what you want, and distract yourself when you find your mind starting to wander..... How goal setting increases belief and decreases doubt http://shrimpsey.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-goal-setting-increases-belief-and.html
I've been trying it for over a year with no success. Still undiagnosed and have so much pain. It's not an easy thing to do, keeping negative thoughts out of the mind is hard.
It can be hard, but you have to remember, only you are in control of your thoughts, and the only one that has to believe is you to make it work. It is amasing, I have been faithfully using it for almost a month now, and it is working and its wonderful. I will share one of my blog posts about what I think you need to do to make it work. I would like to help whoever I can learn this and change your life. What I think makes it work I have found there are 5 things you need to do to get the law of attraction to work. 1. Know what you want and be specific - Decide what it is you want. Write down a few things and start small until you get the hang of it, and then do it again. One key thing here, and I just realised this today, DON'T put time limits on what you want. I edited my goals list tonight to take the time limits off. This is why, when you put a time limit on things, it allows you to doubt, and ponder, is it really going to happen and all those thoughts that just aren't working for you. Instead of being open for your "signs" you will be glancing at calenders. So no time limits, and be specific. Some people do vision boards, which I think I may try, but I don't use that at the moment. 2. Be Realistic in your expectations - Start small. I did the coffee, a few times actually, lol. When you start just think of what you need that would make you happy. Move on from there. Still dream big, but don't have any expectations. Really put thought into it, don't rush your list. 3. Get the feeling - Once you know what you want, its time to get the feeling to go with it. Now, that is SO much easier said then done, and one of the hardest parts to figure out. What I think the feeling is, is this. Imagine a time where you've felt so happy/proud/moved/touched that you feel almost warm inside your whole chest. Well, I think that's the feeling you need to be feeling when you think about what you want to make this work. But, I have a way that if I am having a hard time getting in that feeling, I can get in it. I found 3 you tube videos that give me that feeling. I watch them and think about what I want. I am sure you all have your own things that might give you that feeling. I certain song, a movie, a book, maybe a video also. 4. Think while Feeling - You need to try and remember to think of what you want at the times you are feeling this way, all the time. Its fine to do the videos or whatever helps you, but you have to try and remember to be conscious of what the feeling is, or just even when your happy to remember to think your thoughts. Now it is hard because when you do it, at least for me, I will start to think of what I want, and sometimes my brain is fighting back going"yeah right" the little "ya, buts" and the "what ifs" those have to be blocked out. That's the hard part. The videos, or whatever your happy thing may be is great practice for this. Don't allow doubt to creep in. My saying to myself is don't doubt, just believe. It helps me to ignore the negative thoughts. I even say it out loud. My husband sometimes rolls his eyes at me and laughs, but I do. I made a choice not to doubt. I just believe. 5. Being Thankful - Remember to be thankful and grateful, not for what you receive, but for what you have. For everything, the sun, the breeze, everything. Thank the universe when things go your way. The light is green, there is no line up where you are going, say thanks. Watch for the signs. They will be easier to see if you believe. I mean, what are the chances of my neighbour mentioning the same thing I was thinking of not a 1/2 hour before. The signs will come, and when it starts to work, you will KNOW! And it only gets better. I would love to continue, but I have been neglecting my wonderful husband writing this, so until tomorrow, start thinking about YOUR list! Lets make these things work together.
And just wanted to tell you, the secret does work with self healing. People have cured themselves of cancer. You just have to change the way you think, and what you think about. I will be imagining you well and healthy, and sending some posative engery your way. My blog may be of help to you. Its called Believe.
I agree that money is a law to survive. It attract almost everything, what you want and what you don't want as well. but I think the meaning of the thread is other. Actually, we all use the law of attraction every day unknowing how it works. And if you learn how to use it, then is an asset that you can explore to bring much more value to your life.
I read the book and i have been trying but no results yet, i think it is missing something, i may need to practice it more.
Well, there are 11 other laws that go with it, but I am not totally familiar with them yet, but I am starting to research them. They all tie together, and apparently as you learn more and more laws, it gets stronger, works more, IDK, but I am going to find out. The 11 other laws are: The Law of Thinking The Law of Supply The Law of Receiving The Law of Increase The Law of Compensation The Law of Non-Resistance The Law of Forgiveness The Law of Sacrifice The Law of Obedience The Law of Success The Law of Vibration Anyone have any info on these? Or have you heard about them and their relavance to the law of attraction?
The key to the Law is this: We are continually drawing into life what we give and expect. If we want to get, we must give. If we fail to keep our desires in line with our expectations, it will create confusion, and we will not receive. Maintain full expectation that things will work out, and they will. “There is a power within, greater by far than any difficulty that you can ever meet; that power will never fail to see you through.†But can you ever ask too much of the Law? No, because you cannot be conscious of a need or a desire unless the possibility of its fulfillment already exists. You can receive only that which you can conceive. And you can only get the equivalent of what you give. Give only with a free and willing spirit. It must have no obligations or attachments. Otherwise it may be returned to you with obligations or attachments. When you become unselfish to the point of yielding to the Law, you have been born anew. Your attitude towards the Law, towards fellow man, and towards your own life circumstances will take on the character of your new way of thinking.
Thanks i read your aricle it's useful ... well, i gotta focus more in the positive thinking... thanks for the reply by the way the secret is working with me in the parking spots almost more than 90%
I have spent the last couple of days researching, and I want to share a little After researching, I have discovered the reason why the law of attraction works for some people and not for others. There are 2 key things you need to do along with the law of attraction in order for things to manifest. I was on the right track when I started this blog, but with big holes of missing information. Well, its time to fill in the holes, and as I said before, the more I learn about how this works, and what we need to be doing, I will share it here in hopes that you, the readers will also be able to learn about these laws, and how to put yourself in harmony with them, thus receiving what you want and having the life you desire. For complete article, see my Believe blog. Todays post is my most informative and best post to date I think! I am SOOOO grateful I am understanding these laws, and its only going to keep getting better!!!