This situation would be bad

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  1. #1
    If you caught your best friend's partner being intimate with someone else, would you tell your friend? Or do you think it's better left unsaid?
     
    pennyforum, Feb 7, 2009 IP
  2. jackio

    jackio Banned

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    #2
    If you are really good friend you dont want to see him/she being betrayed right?
     
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  3. allout

    allout Prominent Member

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    #3
    It is tricky because on one hand, you want to look out for your friend. However, if you tell and they get back together, you will be out of the friendship. Sucky place to be for you. It is flip a coin and only you can decide.
     
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    #4
    Id let the friend know no doubt, leave the decision up to him. It also depends on what you seen, could it of been girlfriends cousin/brother?
     
    PHP_Adam, Feb 7, 2009 IP
  5. chunnumunnu

    chunnumunnu Active Member

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    #5
    better to forget! , i will not tell my friend about her GF .
     
    chunnumunnu, Feb 7, 2009 IP
  6. Mr.Kiwi

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    Well... This can be compared to a thief stealing and u dont report him.. I recommend to inform him or her.
     
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  7. fireservice

    fireservice Well-Known Member

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    #7
    depend on situtations,

    if my frnd gf meet to any other boy thats not mean that he is also bf of my frnd gf.

    if he is just good frnds and i m tell to my frnds and if my frnd took that on wrong way then his heart is brack. so i m try to handle situation. and never tell to my frnd, but if my frnd gf meet to that guy daily and if i saw his&her relation ship like bf&gf then i m tell to my frnd to left her. :D
     
    fireservice, Feb 7, 2009 IP
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    jangkrikjr Peon

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    #8
    Forget it, i can do it like that. Keep smiling :)
     
    jangkrikjr, Feb 7, 2009 IP
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    #9
    A best friend would want to know wouldn't he or she? And if it's your best friend, then it shouldn't hurt the friendship if you tell, altho it could destroy a friendship if you didn't and if your friend discovered that you knew and didn't speak up.
     
    BlueRoses, Feb 7, 2009 IP
  10. musichangout.com

    musichangout.com Well-Known Member

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    I will definetely recommend to my friend to divorse him/her.
     
    musichangout.com, Feb 8, 2009 IP
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    #11
    Telling to your friend is right thing to do. Than he/she can decide what to do.
     
    bangalore, Feb 8, 2009 IP
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    #12
    people react differently in a situation like this...I was once put in this position and I told my friend about his girlfriend's infidelity...he was shocked and it was a terrible moment, because he vented his fury upon myself :rolleyes:
     
    EvcRo, Feb 9, 2009 IP
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    #13
    Tell your friend. Why would you want him to stay with someone like that?
     
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    #14
    You said it right :) No one wants to date a girl/boy like that.
     
    scubita, Feb 9, 2009 IP
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    I will suggest you should tell your friend the entire situation. Its upon his\her desire what they want.
     
    Marry Parker, Feb 9, 2009 IP
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    #16
    If the person is my good pal, I would definitely let him or her knows about it.
     
    dglas, Feb 9, 2009 IP
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    I would tell my fiend as no-one deserves to be cheated upon like that.
     
    tempscript, Feb 9, 2009 IP
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    I guess you should tell your friend.
     
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    #19
    I will definitely tell my friend....
     
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    #20
    i`ve definitely gotta tell him/her if, that situation arises!!
     
    erolelcott, Feb 9, 2009 IP