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Online dating question?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by shahab6, Feb 4, 2009.

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    Online dating question?

    I signed up on one of these online dating website, so this girl replies she says let's talk a little bit, if you're interested.so she send me her myspace page so I replied back. And we're been chatting for seven days now, now I don't know if she just wants to chat, become friends or wants to start a relationship. Should I just asked what her intentions are or it's too early? I went to a wedding and she asked me if I met anyone nice, so that's what got me thinking that maybe this girl just wants to be friends

    see the problem is 2other girls have also replied lately. That is why I needs to know,should I move on the next person or wait?
     
    shahab6, Feb 4, 2009 IP
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  2. TheNoose

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    #2
    Well, does she live close or far away? If close then ask her on a real date instead of internet chat... progress from there. If she lives far away... well then I dunno what to say. I personally wouldn't start a relationship with someone far away unless I knew them before the distance grew.
     
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  3. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    I second that!
     
    mdvasanth86, Feb 4, 2009 IP
  4. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    she live close, 10 miles away, I'm going to wait a few more days, then ask her out for coffee or movie or something., I think 7 days to soon to meet.
     
    shahab6, Feb 4, 2009 IP
  5. TheNoose

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    Sounds like a good plan to me. Talking on the internet is completely different from in person conversations. On the internet, people can pretend to be whoever they want to be, in person it's harder to pull this off and so you'll likely be able to judge her better as a person and also how the relationship is progressing.
     
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  6. Valley

    Valley Peon

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    #6
    Girls generally have no difficulty in attracting the opposite sex.
    Women and online dating
    Are they fat?
    Are they nutters?
    Are they after your money?
    Are they a bloke pretending to be woman?
    Some many questions.
     
    Valley, Feb 4, 2009 IP
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    #7
    I think the coffee idea is a great. Make it early enough in the evening so if you hit it off you can go get dinner or do a movie. I met my last boyfriend and my husband both on an internet dating sites. I talked to both of them for a couple of weeks before agreeing to meet. You can never be too careful.
     
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  8. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    thats very true, it will be at a public place.
    So if she turns at to be some psyco path I will be safe
     
    shahab6, Feb 4, 2009 IP
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    EvcRo Notable Member

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    #9
    oh my...online dating :rolleyes:
    well, it's too early to ask serious questions...only 7 days of talking.
    in the first place you have to decide if you like her a lot and stuff like that...notice if she's interested in talking to you every day, if she starts first the talks....
     
    EvcRo, Feb 5, 2009 IP
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    #10
    ask her out in public, not at the night time for the first time.
     
    ads2help, Feb 5, 2009 IP
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    #11
    yeah, take it a bit slow...don`t rush into things!!
    wait for about a couple of weeks before u guyz decide to meet...
     
    erolelcott, Feb 5, 2009 IP
  12. donlin

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    #12
    I did that once with a girl that lived across the country from me, but we chatted for 6 months before we met.
     
    donlin, Feb 5, 2009 IP
  13. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    why so long?
     
    shahab6, Feb 5, 2009 IP
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    Remotay Well-Known Member

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    #14
    Give us a 1-10 on her looks ! We're curious, haha.
     
    Remotay, Feb 5, 2009 IP
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    #15
    be straight up and say hey babe get over to my place and let get it on. If she laughs then she just friends no harm no foul.

    if she comes over well then use your imagination
     
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    so, u got any update for us...??
     
    erolelcott, Feb 6, 2009 IP
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    #17
    Just ask her out... You live only once.
     
    Eocyte, Feb 6, 2009 IP
  18. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    Out of 10 she's around 7-8, she's average looking girl. I think shes decent looking. but she's not like wow, but she's only 18 so thing can change.
     
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  19. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    we are supposed to go out next Saturday see a movie and dinner.
    I asked her out yesterday for tonight, said she has plans with her friends and can't get out of it, but said next Saturday will do.
     
    shahab6, Feb 7, 2009 IP
  20. ErnestHemingway

    ErnestHemingway Well-Known Member

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    #20
    LoL you are such a noob, YOU SHOULD NEVER TAKE A GIRL TO A MOVIE ON YOUR FIRST DATE, for F**K sake you wanna talk to her and get to know her, and you cannot do that in a dark room full of people watching movie, people will think you are a jerk if you start talking inside cinema..

    Learn to date dude, before you do online dating, I prefer meeting people in real life.

    But seriously Cinema is not a place to take a girl only jerks who donno anything make this big mistake..

    Take her somewhere she can enjoy and talk to you at the same time.

    2 hours in cinema watching movie? LOL she can do that on her own too...

    ps- online dating is full of whores, seriously you never find someone who is worth the time. I can get hottest whores in real life, why waste time chatting and then trying to get them..
     
    ErnestHemingway, Feb 7, 2009 IP