long-very long indeed- distance relationship!

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  1. vigorheart

    vigorheart Peon

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    #21
    yes...everything matters on your state of mind... if you feel good even though you know you might be risking something.. go for it.. and if you know that it could shatter you with that risk, know that there are lotta other resources too!
     
    vigorheart, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  2. genkied

    genkied Active Member

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    #22
    nah........ for me long distance relationship never works...
     
    genkied, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  3. jc_yusuke

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    #23
    well if you're really into it...dont give 100% of your love.....
     
    jc_yusuke, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  4. v_sylvia

    v_sylvia Peon

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    #24
    so now i just have to wait for the best to come?

    it doesnt seem like my character ..

    a temporary fling? hmm .. i like that idea! maybe i just have to find someone real near me to hold me n so the internet guy is dor my "temporary fling"
    thanx Kalvin! :))
     
    v_sylvia, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  5. Rage

    Rage Well-Known Member

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    #25
    lol...

    love not happen by planing to fall in love with someone near you...

    love just happen's even if one is at the other end of planet..
     
    Rage, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  6. webangel

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    #26
    wheew! that IS complicated. i don't even know what to advise. :D but for me, nothing beats a real, personal, close contact relationship. the one that you can really see and be with in person. anway, hope everything works out for you. :)
     
    webangel, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  7. sarahk

    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    #27
    90% of the time things follow a particular pattern.
    10% of the time you buck the trend.

    In this case I'd say boyinengland who actually got the gal is in the 10%

    Long distance relationships that start out that way (as opposed to people who start local and end up long distance) are a bit like being single and having an affair with someone who is married.

    Sometimes it works out but mostly all that happens is you don't get to meet a real live touchable person who can be real.

    Now, that might be a good thing, you may actually prefer it that way.
    But if you are running away from a real relationship be honest about it.
    If that personfromthenet turned up on your doorstep for good, would that be too close for comfort?
     
    sarahk, Jun 13, 2006 IP
  8. Kite-san

    Kite-san Peon

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    #28
    I prefer a personal relationship...very personal
     
    Kite-san, Jun 15, 2006 IP
  9. Tyler Banfield

    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    #29
    I can't really comment on an internet relationship because I have no experience there, but I have been in a long distance relationship with the love of my life that I met two summers ago. Unfortunately, she had to move approx. twelve hours away, but we have made it through a lot together, and at the end of this summer we will finally be permanently reunited! So, the moral to this story is that if you really love someone, you can find a way to make it work.
     
    Tyler Banfield, Jun 15, 2006 IP
  10. Maksa

    Maksa Well-Known Member

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    #30
    online relationship is 100% risky. You need lot of luck. coz true love will not make ur luck in your favour. I had really bad exp. my personal advice stay away from Internet love. We should not trust any person on internet. :)
     
    Maksa, Jun 15, 2006 IP
  11. mike_01

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    #31
    i think MAKSA is some what right... people started ditching on the net as they dont really know much abt each other... be very careful...
     
    mike_01, Jun 15, 2006 IP
  12. Daniel

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    #32
    I couldnt agree with you more Maksa :(
     
    Daniel, Jun 16, 2006 IP
  13. Maksa

    Maksa Well-Known Member

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    #33
    then what do u say thing about it Zynet?
     
    Maksa, Jun 16, 2006 IP
  14. Tyler Banfield

    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    #34
    Although I've been in a long-distance relationship for quite awhile now, I personally would have never (or will ever) start a relationship via the internet, it is just a little too strange for my taste.
     
    Tyler Banfield, Jun 17, 2006 IP