What do you think about love? What do u believe?

Well, i broke up with my gf on last year's december (almost a year now), a love which last for 5 months+. I was so stupid to make myself really sad for about 7 months more. Which means I still love her until this year's July. But NO MORE for now!

Thinking about few months ago,
What I mean by stupid was I am the only one care about her and she didn't even care a lil thing about me. When she's sad she'll call me, when she need help she will call me too. But no matter how I helped here she never said a 'Thank You'. She didn't know that the 'thank you' is actually sooo important for me because that's the only thing I can get from her. When I got my problem, she wont pay attention to mine. When I was expressing myself, she will just talk about another topic.

So, finally I've totally give up on her. Nothing cool, because I've changed. I am not like last time where I have many friends to hang out with. I've been studying for 7 months at college but I am still hanging out with my high school friends. I just can't seems to interact well with my college friends (anyway we talk in college too but we didn't hangout unlike my high school friends). I think this is caused by the bitch (sorry).

Besides, now i got no confidence on love anymore. Who should I blame? =D

I've wasted my time(1 year+) , money (few thousands) , heart (hurt & sad) for her and at last I got nothing.

What actually do you guys believe about love? What do u think?

Good night BTW.

 

yeah i believe because i can feel it, but a lot of people sometimes misinterpret it, they sometimes thought it is love though it is really not...

 

here we go again.....more love related threads....

 

you had to visit and closed to that thread if you wasn't interested here

 

I believe in love.

love is like a non-stop two-men relay encourage each other with great patience.
And Love is like oxygen. As we can't live without oxygen, no one can live without love.

 

I believe but i don't.....sometimes i guess it exists but sometimes i feel that its a wastage of time...


But more of my sense feels it as it exists....

 

Love is the deep feelings and it's makes life is meaningful and it's create a lot of problems but i believe love is great.... great.

 

You can't explain love in words.. Coz Love is only a feeling...I believe in love

 

I belive tht on this planet u will find True love only from ur parents...Ur parents will love u with out any kind of expectations...Rest every one will love on give and take method...so its better to accept it rather then keep searching true love like bollywood movies....

 

Time Wasting
Money wasting
Life wasting

 

dating always sucks in my life reason is same of OP said, i am in 31 age now i tried lots girls they all are same

 

again and again.. you can't blame people who wants to share it peace btw

 

I believe in love. And i also respect in true love.

 

Sometimes you just have to accept the way things are. My own relationship didn't work out initially but I always told myself there's always someone for every person.

 

Love can give you more problems. but love can also teach you how to control and respect other.. not just thinking all day about your self but thinking also other people who is more speacial for you.. When I hear love my heart bits faster and faster.. so excited .. when times come your down.. its to hard to overcome.. But that is love full of trials..

 

Thanks for all the replies !!

Yes I agree, love can make you more mature. After every success love or even failure, you will learn something.

You can't force other to love you , like you cant force yourself to love other. When he/she starts to leave you / don't love you anymore, the feeling in your heart su*k alot, the same thing happen when you both quarrel.

Then we start to think that love is an extra problem we find for ourselves.

Well, thats what i feel now. Maybe i will change my mind when i found another =DD