The Seven Questions You Should Never Ask

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Avatar Viper, Oct 26, 2008.

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    1. “Is that your real hair color?” Even if you think that her current hair color is not her natural color or that her hair extensions stick out, don’t make the mistake of letting her know that you suspect that what she has on her hair may not be all hers. She’ll spend time worrying about her looks and less time concentrating on you.

    2. “How much do you weigh?” Why would you need to know that? A woman’s weight is a sensitive area to nearly everyone. It is not particularly memorable or appropriate to talk about pounds or kilos over dinner. Once you get to know her a little better and she feels more comfortable around you, then you might not care what she weighs.

    3. “Do you want to have sex?” This one question has the potential to get your face slapped. Even if that’s the only thing on your mind, have some class. She’s going to see you as a very direct person (best outcome) or a prick (probable outcome). Women in general do not feel comfortable answering questions that have to do with sex on a first date. If you don’t want her to think that you are a jerk, then stay away from this question. Wait for the appropriate time. Be patient. You just might get what you have been asking when you least expect it. Human nature being what it is, a man and a woman who like each other, usually end up becoming intimate at some point.

    4. “Do you think you and I have a future together?” Unless you can tell within the first 20 minutes that this person is the one for you, why would you expect that they’d be able to decide about you? Sure, most women want long term relationships, but they only want it when they have determined for themselves that you are the one. Asking this question on your first date can put pressure on your date. It can even cause a little panic. Don’t let your date come to a screeching halt by asking relationship related questions.

    5. “How much money do you earn or have?” This is none of your business on the first date. Don’t be a jerk by asking this question as she’s sure to think that you are a gold digger. Avoid asking any questions about money, property or other financial matters. You are on the date because you want to know the person, inside and out-not just for how much money she has in her bank account. I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t tell her all of your assets on the first date.

    Read on for the last 2 http://qala.blogspot.com/2008/10/seven-questions-you-should-never-ask.html
     
    Avatar Viper, Oct 26, 2008 IP
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    skypeace Well-Known Member

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    #2
    I already knew these :p Past experience..... :D
    And nice way to promote your blog :p
    [Even i do the same thing :p ]
     
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    Yes you learn these things when you are around girls a lot,you notice what they like and what they don't like.
     
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    I am guilty of comiting some of those mistakes :D
     
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    levampire Active Member

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    I like the way you use to promote your blog.
     
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    Owni Peon

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    You must be a girl, right?


     
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    Marry Parker Well-Known Member

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    I will agree that these questions must never be asked. Girls get offended on such inquires. Be nice and polite towards your gf or some one close to you. Respect them, believe me you will get the same in return.:)
     
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    Girls like it when you slap them around and show them who's boss.
     
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    Slap them around is maybe a bit too much BUT act like a damn sissy and she will be walking all over you, searching for a more manly date
     
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    Also you should never ask how many guys she has been with.. its better to think you are the best at it with her.

    I mean do you really want to know she has been with 4 guys at one time?
     
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    I had a guy tell me once on a first date that he used to be a gigolo. It was a very short first date.
     
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    HostingProvider Active Member

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    :D

    Most of these are obvious. Others aren't, so is always good to know :) Thanks for your time writing this!
     
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    Another: "Is that your real teeth? or nose?" lol.
     
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    Hahaha good ones. I lol'ed at most
     
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    #15
    thanks for sharing enjoyed very much with the stuff.
     
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    #16
    Thanks for the post very good.
     
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    Nice post.
     
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    #18
    I got to agree with you expect the "Do you want to have sex" one.
    You want to get laid, you got to ask. :)
     
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    Lol nice ones....Agreed to all...
     
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    #20
    I agreed to these question, But I think if the person is not a jerk he knows that these question is not a thing to ask on a girl.
     
    Xyle101, Oct 27, 2008 IP