Ex-gf who betrayed me, wants to be back with me.. [help needed]

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by shinan, Oct 22, 2008.

  1. #1
    Ok guys, this girl.. (my ex) who betrayed me, called me tonight.. and told me that she wants to be back with me, she's made for me only, she won't get a happy life without me and bla bla.. what should I do now? I still love her.. :confused::confused:
     
    shinan, Oct 22, 2008 IP
  2. ST12

    ST12 Active Member

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    This is a woman with no principles.
    Move on if you want to keep it nice and clean spiritually.
    A lot of women in America want to bich whenever they want and then have it all again and again.
    You don't want to have children with such a woman. What principle can she teach them if she has none?
    You can still love her as you love all other people.
     
    ST12, Oct 22, 2008 IP
  3. sami1255

    sami1255 Well-Known Member

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    #3
    if you love her.. move on.. but remember you may find yourself starting threads like.. "she betrayed me again" "she called me again"
     
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    #4
    If I was in your situation, then I would do this:

    Arrange to have a chat with her at a local coffee shop or something. Offer to pay for the coffee and say you may consider getting back with her.

    But, before you go get a condom and spit in it. Then, when you take your wallet out of your pocket for cash/a card, "accidentally" drop the condom on the table to make a scene.
     
    calum, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    sami1255 Well-Known Member

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    couldnt get what you mean..? is that some FBI / CIA type investigation? lol
     
    sami1255, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    Sensei.Design Prominent Member

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    #6
    thats a way of finding out if she really wants you back ;)
     
    Sensei.Design, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    #7
    Know the tip we deliver wherever a newbie gets one infraction and come complaining about it?

    You get the same answer:

    Move on and forget about it. :)
     
    scubita, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    How desperate are you to even consider being with someone that betrayed you?

    If you are under 25 (most likely) don't waste your time with relationships. The world is your oyster.
     
    GotWebHost, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    if you really do love her then i say meet her somewhere and see where it goes
     
    tiger325, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    I say move on. Cheating is a dealbreaker for me personally
     
    umcroat, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    surfaddict Active Member

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    Everyone deserved second chance, but just beware with her and take necessary prevention action. If she really change and regret all the previous mistake, why not? Right. :D
     
    surfaddict, Oct 22, 2008 IP
  12. Artifexus

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    Those last 4 words mean nothing we say will influence you. You'll either learn on your own or not at all...
     
    Artifexus, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    #13
    if you still love her...go for it...accept her and give her a chance...and be a martyr...lol
     
    harhis23, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    #14
    It's very hard to move on, especially when you still care for her. Your moving on, is the best thing you can do for yourself, and her.
     
    lspence, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    clinton Well-Known Member

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    lol, that would be too obvious...why would you have a used condom i your wallet? Isn't that where the "Not yet opened" ones go?

    why bo try again, but if she repeats the same behaviour you'll know for sure were she stands...
     
    clinton, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    #16
    Well go on with your feelings.. but be careful now..
     
    milamber, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    You'll be sorry if you let her come back, she'll only use you till she finds someone she likes better. You may have to find that out the hard way.
     
    donlin, Oct 22, 2008 IP
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    #18
    Get along with her and then ditch her! That would be a nice way to get even :D
     
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    #19
    Give her a chance go have coffee and talk about what happened and see if there is and way of fixing the problem and take it from there.
     
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    #20
    If you still love her then should take her back. but this time around play it like a pro.
     
    youngboy222, Oct 22, 2008 IP