My girlfriend just broke up with me...

I think that you should present her abundance of roses or something like that and tell her these words:

The touch of your hand,
The smell of your hair.
The kindness in your smile,
That strength in your stare.

So now I let you go, my love..
And, I'll wait.. Until that day comes . . .

 

Real smooth

 

As much as you love her its not fair to you that she keeps playing games with you

 

You should have a rebound relationship with a few of her relatives or friends.

 

i got with a chick i liked before, but she was similar, she broke up with me because i didnt hassle her enough for us to be together haha

 

I have a friend who breaks up every other week with her bF it is her excuse to go out and party. LOL isn't that horrible.

 

You both sound like you are too young to be in a monogamous relationship.

 

hummm, if you really love her, never give up on her.

 

Same with my case...

Its better to show some self respect now YOU break up with her.

Exactly what i am planning on tomorrow

 

Lol, if only it was that simple.

 

Thats another part of the problem. I'm in my early forties, she's in her late twenties. She realizes she's far from my first girlfriend.

 

A year is the minimum I see someone before moving in together - frankly people act differently at different times of the year, so it's good to get one "cycle" out of the way. That said, she's telling you she needs something from you that you apparently can't give her. You'd be kinder in the long run to end it permanently and let her find someone who can give her what she needs. She's obviously not happy if she keeps ending it and coming back hoping things are going to change. Just my $.02.

 

I've had that very thought on more than one occasion. I'm who she loves but not who she wants.

And in case anyone is wondering...
Yes, we are back together.

 

usually I'll say just remember if you leave the first time for something dumb dont come back a second time cause there wont be one

 

Lol, I wish I had a nickel for everytime I said that.

 

My Advice would be to just ignore her, Eventually she will get tired of not hearing from you and be calling you asking for you back.

 

You should check out an ebook called "Magic Bullets." In a month your phone will be ringing off the hook with calls from cute girls, and when she dumps you again you can thank her for it.

Or read Neil Strauss' "The Game."

100% serious here!

 

Lol. I get girls just fine. I suck at keeping them.

 

My ex bf wanted me to move in with him after just a few months of being together. I almost considered doing it, but it never worked out. Looking back, I'm extremely glad that I didn't stick with him or move in with him. I don't think I would have been very happy at all.

 

You should not move in with her until you are ready to do so.