My girlfriend just broke up with me...

...for the umpteenth time. I swear it seems like she does this every few weeks.
I'll just wait a few days and let her get it out of her system then she'll call me and everything will be fine until the next episode.

She thinks I don't care because I don't want to move in with her. My goodness, we've only been together a year. It's way too soon to start picking out his 'n her bath towels. ...or is it?

Has anyone else been in a similar situation and how did you handle it?

 

Well the solution to your problem is really simple. Murder-suicide pact! Solves all your issues permanently right? She will never do the whole make up, break up thing again. Ok, I am just joking around with you. I have never been in that situation more than once. I had a girlfriend who dumped me and then got back together with me and then dumped me again. That was the last time because I don't play that stupid game.

 

lol mshore, I don't think it's a stupid game. They just want your attention.

 

I think a year is long enough, but that's only my opinion. I think it depends on the two people, and what base you hit haha.

Good luck with that man.

- Regards

 

She can't keep breaking up with you if she's dead.

Just sayin'

 

why don't you break up permanently?

 

I'd be careful of a gal that tried to rush you into a relationship that you're not ready for.

 

In my Humble opinion I think it is to soon. You sound like your not ready for this commitment. Tell her you want to take it slow at least for now.

 

As Superman123 said, I do think a year is enough. How deep are your feelings toward this girl?

 

LOL. Each time she breaks up with me she tells me it's for the last time and she's never coming back.
Each time she comes back, I tell myself the next time she breaks up with me I won't take her back.

After a year of this, we've gotten the routine down pat.

 

look, when she call back to reconcile, its time for you to ignore her for 1 week! She definitely will taste miserable for her ignorance. Then warn her before you patch back with her. I guess it works! all the best dude.

 

just try make her understand that you need some time....and do it with utter sincerity or else get ready to loose her...this happned to me once and so i am saying this to you..

 

Go with it if she will keep the place clean. It's only a key, not a ring.

 

She is doing this because she wants a commitment from you and she properly thinks that you haven't give her one.

 

Aww, that sucks man. But yeah, a year is a bit son to start moving in together. Here's hoping it all works out in the end!

 

is she nice whats her email

 

She break up with you every few weeks and come back to you.
I think she really loves you.
I understand she only want to prove she is important in your mind.

 

Very true...l

 

She loves you that what that's mean, and why won't you stay with her as she wants thats a good idea, If I were you I will move in with her, I love to move in with my girl but she got so many responsibility to her parents.

 

Hate all the breaking up shit one week and not the other, if it was serious and she wants to move in you wouldnt be breaking up every week lol.