I don't know what to do. Everything is falling apart.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Phultu, Sep 22, 2008.

  1. ceemage

    ceemage Well-Known Member

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    #21
    My parents split when I was 13, and I know that it feels like the worst thing in the world at the time.

    Just remember that -- for all that they hate each other's guts at the moment -- they both still love you.

    I know that you will want to be the Man for your mom, but don't feel you have to be the 'brave little soldier' all the time.

    And remember you have the best wishes of everyone here.
     
    ceemage, Sep 23, 2008 IP
  2. rylai0crestfall

    rylai0crestfall Peon

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    #22
    I'm sorry to hear this, but don't worry everything will be ok. Just pray to God and everything will be alright.
     
    rylai0crestfall, Sep 24, 2008 IP
  3. cucumber

    cucumber Peon

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    #23
    I hope you were drunk when posting this :rolleyes:
     
    cucumber, Sep 24, 2008 IP
  4. ThoughtPunk

    ThoughtPunk Active Member

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    #24
    No disrespect in anyway, but it seems a lot of people turn to god when things go wrong.

    If we're created image of god, then we are god. Therefore we need to handle stuff ourselves.

    ;)We are the change.
     
    ThoughtPunk, Sep 24, 2008 IP
  5. FOX LORE

    FOX LORE Notable Member

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    #25

    LOL... You serious! Your thinking is wrong!!!! God gives me everything I need. If things never went wrong, then nobody would ever need God, right. God helps you when you need things not when you don't. :)
     
    FOX LORE, Sep 24, 2008 IP
  6. Phultu

    Phultu Peon

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    #26
    ... just to update you all on this... My dad has become.. I don't know what. He feels that my mom doesn't love him anymore. Last night- he attempted to commit suicide. He drank a full bottle of bleach. He's in the hospital right now, and will have a endoscopy (tube going right into his body to see if organs have been affected).

    He has damaged his lungs and his pipe has become as thin as this: | |. He can't swallow his spit either and everything in his throat has been burned because of the bleach.

    You are my family DP... I really need your support through this :(
     
    Phultu, Oct 8, 2008 IP
  7. nihangshah

    nihangshah Prominent Member

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    #27
    It's really disappointing, to see such things. Try to love your parents, more and more. Give them things, they love a lot.

    Be confident and happy.

    And, please change your avatar.
     
    nihangshah, Oct 8, 2008 IP
  8. gemini181

    gemini181 Well-Known Member

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    #28
    Remember we are not professionals.
    Do you have someone (an adult) at school you can talk to?

    Try to think positive, even when things seem bad. :)
     
    gemini181, Oct 8, 2008 IP
  9. Phultu

    Phultu Peon

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    #29
    No gemini, you may not be professionals, but to me, DP is the only family I have now, that this one is broken.
     
    Phultu, Oct 8, 2008 IP
  10. Xx_knight_xX

    Xx_knight_xX Banned

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    #30
    I'm sorry for hearing that....
    I know how much is hard for you, but you will feel better as the time passes, know that you're not the first and you won't be the last.
    And don't worry about your financial state, because i'm sure that your mom have made plans, also your father might hate your mother but remember that he doesn't hate you and your sister, so of course he's gonna take care of you and support you with money from time to another ( even thought that he have to do that by law ).
    Remember "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger"
    and again i'm sorry for hearing that :(
     
    Xx_knight_xX, Oct 8, 2008 IP
  11. tokyoice

    tokyoice Well-Known Member

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    #31
    I'm sorry to hear this.

    People kind of drift away in life, if they don't love one another, their relationship will not work and it may be the best thing for your mum and dad to say their goodbyes.

    If I were you I'd get yourself some help, seek some proffesional help, they are experts and really good at their jobs.

    If your dad do leave, you have to take control of the house and look after your mum and your sister.
     
    tokyoice, Oct 8, 2008 IP
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    #32
    yes DP is here for everything .......
     
    leandar, Oct 11, 2008 IP
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    dekcom Peon

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    #33
    Be strong and you will bear it
     
    dekcom, Oct 11, 2008 IP