I need HELP with this : I'm a 9th Grader, There is this bunch of guys that are just frustrating me, They are in the same grade as me, They are the worst !! They make fun of anything anytime, and because I'm new at that school !! I came to my fav. DP seeking help .. and asking What can I do to push them back ? 2- What is the best martial arts for a 155+ Centimeters, 55 KGs ?, I'm a shortie, but not fat. 3- There is also that girl that I 'think' I fell in love with !!!, I don't know If she has a BF or not, anyway, it is just a thought that I'm in love ?, She is in the same grade, and I HATE to be the Funny Topic of the class when she is there !!!!! P.S: People who will start saying I'm a Whiner, PLEASE, Don't EVEN think of posting , I know this is a Webmaster Forum, But I think webmasters are human with feelings and emotions, they can laugh, cry, and smile, so please just post your advice
Buddy, imo you should stay away from such guys. Concentrate on your studies. No need to do any kind of social work like you talked about martial arts. Go for it if you want to learn that art but dont apply it on them, you will just increase problems for yourself. Regarding that girl, you don't even know her properly. First you start talking to her. Then think further about it and ya dont even think that by making fun of you in front of that girl they will do any kind of harm. In fact in a way they will help you by doing it.
one method is be cool and don't smileand make fun of teacher and do some crazy stuff believe it works 100%
The martial arts is NOT for them , Just for physical fights sometimes (Ya, They do) You mean to be that 'mysterious' guy ? I know that girl, Well, She lives in the same building , for about 5 years But didn't talk with here, I guess ever, I had my EX, so didn't ever think I'd love her, I was just like hey, hey, Birthdays and stuff, never tried to impress her
Man, tell me, how old are you and where do you study? You may find that weird but the mentality differs with ages and places
Hi , I can understand your situation. My advice is just ignore them when they make fun of you, so they will know that, they no longer can irritate you and after some day they will go away. Try to make your own friends and form a group. learn martial arts to increase your self esteem , not to fight with them. Good luck.
Understand your situation, just don't take it too serious, most of us here been there, done that (actually kind of miss those school life), whatever they do just smile and walk away, sooner they will forget abt you (also is a good chances for you to show the girl, how mature you are) ...... I miss ur life now ...
They are probably just jealous of you, think about it. You are far ahead many 9th graders, just judging by your activities on DP. Those bullys will probably grow up to be flipping burgers, and you will be making great money on the Internet. About the girl, don't play any games, just be true to yourself and she will like you or not. The important thing is keep your head up, and don't let people like that drag you down.
Did you share this with your parents, your parents should personally talk with those boys, also why dont you complain your teachers. Also get yourself a nice group, be in group that way they can't bully you.
I'm 14, Anyway, I don't want to learn martial arts to hurt them (I can already hurt them ), But I want to increase my self-confidence !! I'm not a geek or anything .. I'm a normal 9th grade guy, PARENTS ?! : They will just say (Have self-confidence) .. Talk with these Guys !?, Oh : The guys will just think That I'm a KG Kid !!! It's My Life, My RULE !!
I pretty much agree with what everyone else says here, but especially Rebecca. If what these kids are doing is severe enough to constitute bullying, report them. Otherwise, ignore them. Decide whether you want to get to know this girl first, then and only then see if she is interested in you. But anyone who thinks that either of these bits of advice are easy or obvious has forgotten what it's like to be 14