is there any sucesful anime site owner than can answer for me is this a hard niche to grow? can you guys give some pointers. besides link exchanging,forum posting. and can you give me a list of active forums where i can post and put my site on sig.
"Anime" persay is not really a niche market. It has a big following and there is a lot of money in it. That said like any market if you target your blog/website correctly you can make money. Now that being said your name & site names suggest that you are focusing towards hentai (for those not up to date on japanese that in the simplest layman's term is 'japanese cartoon porn') which will make some cash, however programs like Adsense etc disallow, so your going to have to put extra effort into managing your ads etc then someone like me who uses more mainstream advertisers.
Just to list a few http://www.animeforum.com/ http://www.animenation.net/forums/ http://www.anime-forums.com/
It's easy to grow, it's hard to keep everything up to date. It takes a LOT of time. Eventually you'll be strapped for cash unless you have some other projects pulling in money for you.
It takes a long time to set up and requires a lot of 'man power' if you will. Honestly if you want to make cash on the net it isn't the niche for you , it's very over saturated.
If your in the top 10 I think your site is going to be making somewhere around the $X,XXX per day mark.
i think theres been a lot of anime anime on net dude, look out for something new, ahhh but if is your passion, then go with it