Falling in love online.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by msi52, Aug 16, 2008.

  1. #1
    Is it possible for someone to fall in love online without meeting in person?

    A friend of mine feels that he is in love. He's never met the girl in person. They're online friends since many months. They talk on phone. They chat online. They express their feelings to each other. Both of them the same feelings and they say they love each other too much. Geographically its not possible for them to meet in person right now. They can only see each other on cams and the only way for them is internet or phone.

    Now he is confused. Everything is virtual. Its like illusion. Should he continue the relation ? He really needs some good suggestions.

    Thanks in advance.
     
    msi52, Aug 16, 2008 IP
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  2. broma

    broma Peon

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    #2
    if he licks the persan i see nit a problm!
    do they have intrests! same?
    make sure no shadi busnes! and we god!
     
    broma, Aug 16, 2008 IP
  3. msi52

    msi52 Peon

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    They love each other. But the only problem for them is they cant be together right now.
     
    msi52, Aug 16, 2008 IP
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    #4
    I think they should probably meet first. They're going to have to do it at some point anyway. A meeting will go a lot further than lots of online chatting will.
     
    CheeseHunter, Aug 16, 2008 IP
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    web_hunk Peon

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    #5
    It is possible to fall in love with a person without actually meeting him/her. If they are really in love with each other, they can wait till the right moment arrives and meet each other. But most of the online relationships are not fruitful in the long run as it is quite easy to show something that you aren't. So, your friend needs to take care of all the perspectives before making a decision.
     
    web_hunk, Aug 16, 2008 IP
  6. Nora

    Nora Well-Known Member

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    I think internet love isn't real, people just find it easier than going out and finding a real partner.
    If everything goes well in person then the relationship stands a chance but right now I'd advice your friend to get out of it and find someone else.
     
    Nora, Aug 16, 2008 IP
  7. msi52

    msi52 Peon

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    You mean someone else in real. Not like this again?
     
    msi52, Aug 16, 2008 IP
  8. Lumberjack!

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    #8
    Yeah, what he said.
     
    Lumberjack!, Aug 16, 2008 IP
  9. msi52

    msi52 Peon

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    They want to tie a knot. So, i guess they're serious about it.
     
    msi52, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    Yeah, sure why not continue? I don't see anything to lose and you can decide whether or not you want to continue after meeting the person in reality.
     
    RagekiJohn, Aug 17, 2008 IP
  11. mikey1090

    mikey1090 Moderator Staff

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    #11
    He needs to meet her. Otherwise it won't go far....

    Real life relationships are the old fashioned way, and the right way to do things.
     
    mikey1090, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    dairyman Notable Member

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    #12
    Online relationship without directly meeting in person or at least through cam has its own peril. If both are made for each other, then it is not at all a problem. Time to get married :)
     
    dairyman, Aug 17, 2008 IP
  13. msi52

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    They are waiting meet each other in person now. I hope they be together soon.
     
    msi52, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    kingofsanda Peon

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    #14
    I do not think 2 people can be in love if they have never met
    each other in person. Your friend has to meet the girl in person
    to see if there is chemistry.
     
    kingofsanda, Aug 17, 2008 IP
  15. msi52

    msi52 Peon

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    #15
    Thats true.

    But they've been chatting since almost a year. I see my friend he cant live without talking to her for even a day and i'm sure its same with the girl. Their situation is too confusing. :confused: :(
     
    msi52, Aug 17, 2008 IP
  16. thekramershow

    thekramershow Banned

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    #16
    Sure, your FRIEND, right?

    Falling in love online is for 7th graders who grew a hair overnight.

    Am I still reading this stuff?
     
    thekramershow, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    5starpix Notable Member

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    #17
    Yes, it is possible. But it is hard to get to know each other
     
    5starpix, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    sideman Banned

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    #18
    I happens all the time a pretty girl from hummm,,, Russia, Asia or _____ will start to PM a guy they will fall in Love talk about all of their feelings he just can’t live without her...

    They have to be together forever, it was meant to be.

    The only way is to marry her and pay for her immigration to ______$1500 maybe $2300 to start the process, it is worth it for a soul mate who loves you and you will have forever.

    He sends the money and never hears from her again..

    It was some gay dude in Thailand, Nigeria or_____ who just made 2 years of wages chatting with some sucker.
     
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  19. Sporsho

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    #19
    Virtual love is not fruitful all the time. If both of them trust each other, then it is ok, but he has to judge himself whether she trusts him or not. One of my friend got married with his phone friend. They only talked over phone before they get married. Ur friend chats with her, talks with her, sees her over webcam, so he must understand what she actually is. Ur friend should tactfully find out whether she is trustworthy or not.
     
    Sporsho, Aug 17, 2008 IP
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    #20
    Hey Broma! Why don`t you learn English before you post in here?

    __________________________

    I think that you can`t truly love a person if you don`t meet her.
     
    george12005, Aug 17, 2008 IP