having a baby: is it exciting or annoying?

as a single, maybe it's still a long time before i have kids. so, pls share your experiences or at least your opinion

 

i share the expirence with others children and i dont want own!

 

I have a daughter who is 4 years old.
I love her so much and she acts out, but I rarely get annoyed with her.
I'm just too happy having her for a daughter to mind the tantrums or the crying when it happens.

I've noticed other parents are different though.
I see lots of parents getting really pissed off at their kids for their disobedience.

I believe to be a good parent, you need to separate emotion from discipline.
I think too many parents discipline their children in the midst of their anger and frustration.
I don't feel that's true discipline. I think it is more for the parent's benefit of releasing their anger, than it is for the child's benefit of learning right from wrong.

 

exciting if ours, annyoing if others.

 

Very Funny

 

i like the kids, i like their laugh and their smell.. make me happy

 

It's both.

When they're that young, they don't know any better. But as they get older....

My son knows when I get mad - I let him know it. There's nothing wrong in a kid seeing you get mad. It's ok for him to get mad at me too. I rarely stay mad for more than a couple of minutes. When I do get *that* mad, I send him to his room and I go to mine. And believe me, it does happen now and then.

 

Don't have any but my older sister does and they are cool until you want some sleep and they will keep everyone awake all night long.

 

I like your post.
Yes I totally agree with you.

 

having a baby is a very exciting part of my life. i have 9months old baby daughter, and i feel that having a baby is completed my life, because, You can change your wife, but you can change your baby no matter what happen.

 

It's the greatest moment in the world.

 

I like my lil cousins.. never had a baby.

 

I would assume that it would be exciting at first when everything is fresh and new... then as the redundancy & challenges of taking care of the baby piles up, it will turn into annoyance Just a guess!

 

Annoying for me ....


Crying, crying, all night long.
And these are small problems.
I know it from neighbours.

When the baby/child is getting older.
Your problems are also getting harder.

(sex, drugs, fighting, .......)

So ...

Small childs, small problems
bigger kids, bigger problems




And I will not be suprised that you get less love
from your wife. Because the most important thing next, is her kid.

A women prefers first to quit with her husband
than instead her kid.


I've seen these situations to much !!

If you know a women, that thinks otherwise
and gives the most love on her husband, instead of her kid,
let her contact me. (I'm 31 years old) hehehe





Sorry !!

Jason

 

If the thought of having a baby is annoying, best not having one

 

hahaha lol

Great answer m8

 

Its both exciting and annoying. Exciting because you spend a lot of good time with the kids and they really make you happy and give you true love. Annoying because they sometimes don't listen to you and give you trouble.

 

at first it should be exciting but in the long run it might turn out to be a headache lol.

 

My father disowned one of my brothers at the age of 16... drug addiction, suicide attempts, heart attack (and at such a young age ) oh, you don't even want to know. The story is so gruesome.

 

And that is funny why?