About the alimony ;(

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by extra_work, Jun 30, 2008.

  1. #1
    So guys,
    DO you think a man who has succeded in life should pay an alimony to a slutty wife after the divorce ? Do you think this is justice ?
     
    extra_work, Jun 30, 2008 IP
  2. Business_in_2008

    Business_in_2008 Peon

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    #2
    Really all depends on a lot of things, there's no one answer for me.

    The main point is that the man still loved that slutty wife at one time to marry her in the first place.
     
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  3. mishsu

    mishsu Banned

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    #3
    life ain't fair.
     
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    Jewtopia Active Member

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    #4
    Do you mean paying alimony to wife or to kids?
     
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  5. extra_work

    extra_work Active Member

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    #5
    Wife .........
    If i had kids of course i would pay ,i would alimony to them ...
    The point is :Imagine your life screwed with an abject homeless beggar.You are successful man and you have to pay this slut .....for what ?
    And the worst is that you may have to split all your fortune.Imagine you have worked so hard to achieve this and now have to split it with a whore....
     
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  6. Nora

    Nora Well-Known Member

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    #6
    I'm against partner alimony unless the relationship was abusive and the wife never got the chance to build a career or her only responsibility was to stay at home and look after the kids. Try to stop with the name calling, referring to a wife as whore or slut won't solve anything.
     
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  7. extra_work

    extra_work Active Member

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    #7
    No ,I dont have this problem .I am only 17 :D
    I have just watched a movie about this.Sad story ;)
     
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  8. desilator

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    #8
    I only agree with paying alimony to an certain extent. Kids are involved with out a doubt pay up sucka.
    No kids involved then the story changes. I see no reason for a spouse not to obtain a job and be completely self sufficient in a marriage. Except for certain circumstances that may have prevented her from doing such a thing.
     
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  9. Cylon

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    #9
    only a **** would say such a thing. :p

    what about the argument that they have access to work at home opportunities?
     
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    xmartel Active Member

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    I don't think you should have to pay under those circumstances.
     
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  11. Nora

    Nora Well-Known Member

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    #11
    That's not something worth putting on a CV.
    The man would have had all the opportunities to work and build a career when the woman would have to start over. That doesn't mean I'm for those women that only want to profit off a relationship but it's important to keep in mind that when a woman spends time raising kids they can't work on their career at the same time and gaps in a CV are not something to proud of. Besides, sometimes women have to pay alimony to their husbands.
     
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  12. Cylon

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    #12
    you should define cv for those not in the know.

    are you saying work-at-home opportunities don't work? I saw on tv this couple made $50,000 a month just from working at home. explain that.
     
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  13. Rachel Johnson

    Rachel Johnson Well-Known Member

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    #13
    Eh, alimony is part of getting married in certain states, countries, counties... If you don't want to pay it, make sure to check into the laws before you get married....or make sure that your spouse makes more money than you! ;)
     
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    donlin Active Member

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    #14
    I do not believe in alimony, I think its the biggest rip-off of all time. Women are just as capable of earning a salary as a man is. I would never for a moment consider marrying a woman who refused to sign a pre-nuptial. Theres lots of women out there who will fool a guy into marriage just so she can divorce him later and live off of his labors the rest of her life. Seen it happen far too often. Women are equal to men right? They can hold high paying jobs, serve as combatants in the armed forces, and do any kind of job a man does, so why can't men file for alimony? Fairs fair or isn't it? (rant off!)
     
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    I am of the opinion that alimony is essential if the partner is financially challenged after the divorce
     
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    #16
    I think that it should only be paid if there are kids and if she helped you become successful, or if you did the cheating, but if it was her then NO
     
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  17. Back 2 Roots

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    #17
    No Body Is Perfect....
     
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  18. extra_work

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    #18
    HAahaha
    What if after the divorce ,the ex-wife and her body disappear :D:D:D
    Then we wont need to pay alimony ;D
     
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    #19
    You marry her, you pay, tough luck, people should learn to avoid the leeches. It must be said I didn't want Mucca to get anything.
     
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    #20
    pay her so you won't have an attachment with her after. make sure that you have a lawyer that will witness and do the documents of your payment.
     
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