marrying a woman older than me ?

i love her very much

she also love me very much

the problem of her ad my family


they refuse that


i am sure i am not brave enought to marry her without my family permition


what can i do

i am misrable

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the answer of the question

7 monthes

 

If you love her than marry with her.Don't see to any body.Because love is blind.

 

If its love, no worries mate.

 

try to tell your family how much you love she again and again. Maybe love is blind but for me family is important as much as love..

 

How old is she? How old are you?

I personally think when I'm at the age, I'll end up getting married to an older girl too..

 

I think love has no age limit.

 

You will regret your self for the rest of your life and believe me if you marry someone else, THAT will just be a bad thing to do against your "wife".. Why the heck is 7 months not OK for your family?? When I think of it now.... All of my (x)girlfriends were older than me, and that by years.. If my family said something like that.. I would say. too bad I love her..

 

WTF!!!!???? if your family screwed their lives is their own problem, they don't need to live yours!!!. It's you life, do whatever you want!!! if they don't like it, screw them!! how come that you have to live by what your family lets you or not to do???. It's you life man!! there it will come a time when they will be on their own and you'll need them and they won't be there (it ALWAYS happens at some point), and that'll be the pople you chose over your loved one.

 

family is not for block someones love.

 

Just go ahead and marry her. If you can provide for the two of you financially and do not need your parents help then just go ahead with it.

 

Marry her, age aint nuthin but a number

 

If you love, and don't think you can live without her, then the only option is to marry her.

 

7 months? You call THAT an "older woman"? The problem may not be your family's opposition but rather your own perspective of your girlfriend. When it comes to age diffferences, seven months is nothing, so why do you regard her with that label? Is their a deeper barrier in your mind?

But more to the point, felzafndy, if you won't marry her just because your family is against it, then you're not marriage material under any circumstances. Truly believing in something or someone includes fighting for your cause if necessary. If you're not willing to do that, then you're just a puppet on your parents' string, and not a mature individual in your own right, which is a characteristic for a happy marriage

BTW, DW is 4 years older than I am, but I surely don't consider her an older woman. I also faced parental objections to our marriage (for reasons other than the age difference), but I overcame them. And even if I hadn't, I still would have gone through with it.

 

Agreed!!

 

My wife is 4 years older than me...and it's working out great

 

7 months doesn't really make her older than you. I gauge somebody as being older than me when they could have gained more experience from life because of their age. 7 months isn't going to give you that.

I say stay strong and go for it. Your family should love you no matter what you choose. That is the purpose of having a family.

 

I don't think you are telling us the whole story here.

7 months is not considered older than you.

She might be fat, ugly, or you guys are too young to get married.

Your family might have seen something that she is not worth it to be your wife.
Weigh the pros and cons.
These days marriage isn't as it used to be.
No need to spend 40K and 2 years after you get divorced.
Marriage is a big commitment and make sure you are ready for it. And you are not just doing it for sex.
Because sex do die down once you are married.

hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

Remember the saying- " Love knows no age", and 7 months is nothing.

 

if u really love her thn us should marry wid her, think man think u love her can u live widout her.