Hi I'm 31 years old and I have problems to get on a new girl-friend. The biggest problems are: ----------------------------- I weight 10-15 kg to much So I'm 1.70 m and weight 83 kg. ------------------------------------- Second problem: I'm to shy to speak with a woman I've never spoken before. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Third problem: My both parents killed themselfs, 50% of my family and friends let me die ... Lost my lastest girl-friend a few years ago and also my work, All the same time ... Life can really suck !! But I'm over it. At least about this. But ..... What with the 2 problems above ??? My weight and that I'm to shy ??? I don't wanna loose to much weight, because I feel great now. I feel happy, like I'm now. But is it the only important thing for a women today? Your weight ? You must be looking great like a TV star ?? Doesn't count the innerside anymore of your hart these days ? Must we all be the nicest and greatest men, like on TV ? And what with that I'm to shy to speak to unknown women ? Is there another way of first contact ? Jason
hey. I am sorry to hear that...I knew U are very good person. IMO,The weight is not important thing for a women..Dont worry.Everything will get better..good luck nitinleew
Those who go for just handsome guys without thinking about the nature of the person are not after love but after lust..so you should like yourself and hope for the best...you will soon find your girl
Believe it or not, most girls care about what's on the inside! Just always be yourself and be honest. As for the speaking to ladies thing, that's something that you'll have to get over.
I believe without love we're nothing...so I understand you trying to find a nice woman to love You should be opened and sincere, optimistic and a true believer ...and love will come into your life! As for loosing weight...forget about it...you're just fine...I have almost 100kilos and my height is 183cm ...I should take this into account
girlfriends are easier to make. but it is really difficult to have a true friend, whether it is a girl or a boy
Seriously mate, true love is when you are loved for who you are and when you are accepted as you are. And about the second question i would rather not comment as i myself am a shy guy who finds it very difficult to talk to girls first... maybe we both will find an answer here from someone Oh this is my 900th post and im happy for its of some quality !
Sorry to hear that. Plentyoffish.com is a good way to meet women. You might find it easier to talk to them for a while before meeting them. If you want to lose weight the best way is biking or jogging, I lost about 60Lbs through jogging 4 kms 5 nights a week. Hope you feel better soon.
I think if you are planning for the love then look no matter. Do you have any close friend whom you talk regularly. Then propose her. Shy is the enemy of love. So frankly propose her. All the best.
My condolences to your family, you just have to try, be optimistic and comfident, try to open and funny with girls and no cheesy chat up lines.
If you have an even moderately active social life ( or even dont but have a job ) then likely sooner or later you'll meet someone probably when not actively looking & just hanging out ( nearly everyone I know met their partners at work or down the pub when they werent expecting it & thought it was just one more day ) . Speaking as a bloke shorter than the average who was notably overweight & was also too shy to approach women he didnt know , I found that ( at least some ) ladies like a guy who is nice to them , treats them with respect ,genuinely listens to what they have to say ( one of the things being shy almost makes us better at ) & as you get to know them better & the shyness hopefully wears off a bit a sense of humour is great too ( dont advise trying to force that though ). You may well be/do all of the things I've just mentioned & more for all I know & if so it's just a matter of time IMO . There are so many "flash git" type of guys out there you'll probably be exactly what a lot of ladies are looking for . PS if all that fails if you have a dog walk it in the local park & ladies come up to you & start the conversation & you dont have to
Man, life is beautiful. Please think positive! Say to yourself that you will get a girl for yourself and go out to find her. If you start to think that you look nice, then people will think the same as well.