Tip: For the start you don't have to fill in so much forum because empty forum turns people away, till you have some traffic then you should consider adding
You have one of those default templates this particular template has been used many times, you should try to get a more unique template for the site and you should consider adding a graphic into the header because there is too much negative space in the header.
Thanks for advice - I will add a graphic into the banner - maybe a contest here would do it where would I get a custom theme?