Should I ask this chick out or not?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by MarketExpert, May 4, 2008.

  1. #1
    I like this really hot girl and am thinking about asking her out. the only problem is that she is 17 and I am 24. I am not really sure what the social standard is but is that too young or should I just go ahead?
     
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  2. twistedspikes

    twistedspikes Notable Member

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    #2
    depends on where you live if it'll be bad or not (in the legal sense). But really, i'd say 18's the limit (so, not younger) if your 20-25 by social standards.
     
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    jkrish41 Banned

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    #3
    Honestly of course there is legality and minors and such, but I think you should do if you really like her and hopefully she likes you too :) :) :)
     
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  4. mimm

    mimm Banned

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    #4
    I think no problem, man. As long as you respect her, treat her good, make her happy and bring her back home safe, no problem.
    Social standard? I don't care about it.
     
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    pdsllc Well-Known Member

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    Depends on what country you're in.

    In the US, I know a guy who's in jail for statutory rape. He picked her up in a bar...she had ID showing she was 21...she was only 17....they got caught doin' the consentual wild thing by her parents...he's in jail...she's not...it's not worth the risk.

    I believe the UK age of consent is 16, in the US, who knows? I think each state has it's own idea.
     
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  6. Little Honey

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    Careful, a lot of girls will say anything if they end up not liking you so much.. You could go to jail for a long time. The laws are definitely slanted toward innocent (looking) girls. :rolleyes:
     
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  7. Ikaruga

    Ikaruga Active Member

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    It's not illegal to talk to her. Go for it.
     
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    leandar Well-Known Member

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    in India we can do sexual relation with 16 age girls if they approved
     
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    EvcRo Notable Member

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    #9
    This is also my opinion:) with these unwritten laws;)

    As for the written laws you certainly know better your country legislation ...you have to be sure ...with no unexpected surprises:(
     
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  10. mcfox

    mcfox Wind Maker

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    well go ahead talk to her for a year and you can ask her out on her next birthday, who knows after talking you might not fancy her at all or perhaps more, so i suggest go ahead mate.
     
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    It's sort of a good investment if you ask her out and secure her heart early!
     
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    Algert Well-Known Member

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    #13
    just ask her, nobody will kill you !
     
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    Exactly other wise it,ll be too late :)
     
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    Go ahead. When a girl is at the age of 17 and is about to go to college, the age of the guys she dates doesn't matter anymore. In fact, her family would probably approve of an older guy that went through college already and has a high paying job.
     
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    You should not go out with a girl just cause she is hot and good to talk to. So no due to what you have told us so far. Plus no due to the age and legal issues. Even if she openly consents all she has to do is lie and you find yourself registering as a sex offender.
     
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    It better not be my Girlfriend lol! Theres some 24 year old in love with her and shes 17.
     
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    mmm.. i think you should not. the gap is mmm i think way too far. its your choice
     
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    #19
    The reason why the law is there is so that older people have a mass amount of knowledge and control over the opposite person.

    You shouldn't ask her out. You said yourself "a really hot girl". I suppose it'll be easier to "bonk" her since you got 7 years worth of life success to offer. Think about it? Would you have a chance if you were back in time to 17?

    Keep it legal and honest. You are going to end up getting busted. I'm sure there's plenty of 24 year olds that meet your standards. "really hot".
     
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  20. ЄxDeus™

    ЄxDeus™ Well-Known Member

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    #20
    i have to say if its jailbait dont go near it.... talk to her and wait till she is 18.
     
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