love marraige or arrange marraige?

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    wht best ur support and why ???
     
    danish muzaffar, Apr 10, 2008 IP
  2. wisdomtool

    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    For me definitely a love marriage. Arranged marriage is definitely a No No, though I had seen a lot of Indian friends go through arranged marriage as if it is extremely natural. I guess it has more to do with cultural than anything else.
     
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    There are at least two other potential primary factors to consider: marriage for money and marriage for amazing sex.

    Still, out of the four, I'd definitely put love a long way in the lead.
     
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  4. danish muzaffar

    danish muzaffar Banned

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    #4
    i respect ur ideas but i guess ...you love a gurl;you follow her wat she wna do you just blindly folow her steps[no offense]

    but amigoes

    the gurl love you follow your steps ....family problms matters alot man
     
    danish muzaffar, Apr 10, 2008 IP
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    I'd go for love, not much into arranged marriages but I do respect others culture and beliefs.
     
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    I think, love cum arranged. Both things will go. No harm to anyone's intentions!!! :)
     
    rockinfuture, Apr 11, 2008 IP
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    Would you want someone else to decide what car you drive, where you have to live, what you will do for a living, and what pets you will own?

    The most important thing in life is probably who you love. I don't know why anyone would want this arranged by someone else.
     
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    Love marriage aranged marriage is crap
     
    w3bmaster, Apr 11, 2008 IP
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    #9
    love is best
     
    pioneer1, Apr 11, 2008 IP
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    i support love i think it works better when you are not forced at gun point to get married :)
     
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    It's culture. I am very well on the love-marriage side.
     
    EnPassant, Apr 11, 2008 IP
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    If both are crap, why do ya marry ? :confused:
     
    gr8liverpoolfan, Apr 12, 2008 IP
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    i am on the love side,but i fully respect about the culture
     
    pro_account, Apr 12, 2008 IP
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    Love Marriage of course. Not exactly for arrange marriages, but I still respect it.
     
    sw3t_simplicity88, Apr 13, 2008 IP
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    Don't marry and change your love to a trash can.
     
    BWDOW, Apr 13, 2008 IP
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    Love marriage ofcourse which I want to be arranged by my parents. Dont want to hurt them:)
     
    oldmentor, Apr 14, 2008 IP
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    How would you be hurting your parents :). You will be the one hurting as for better or worse you need to face your partner till death parts (or unless divorce is initiated)

     
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    Both types of marriage has merit and demerit.
     
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    Marriage should be arrange. You can turn it into love after you Marriage
     
    sturat.mitchel, Apr 14, 2008 IP
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    I would really hate it if I had an arrange marriage especially with someone I don't even know yet.
     
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