I am feeling very lonely

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  1. sturat.mitchel

    sturat.mitchel Banned

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    #21
    I am with you. So you don't need to feel lonely. You can chat with your loving friend to keep yourself busy
     
    sturat.mitchel, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  2. harshakiran

    harshakiran Notable Member

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    #22
    Do this seriously u wont find time to feel lonely

    dont worry you are not alone
     
    harshakiran, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  3. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #23
    Indulge yourself in some creative work..
     
    Abhik, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  4. dlbott

    dlbott Peon

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    #24
    Feeling alone is an emotion like any other. Eat some ice cream, take a walk, or what ever changes your mood.

    Sounds good huh. Being alone really sucks. It also deepens any depression you maybe suffering from.

    If you feel melancholy and alone it could effect your health. Reality is there is no easy answer to feeling alone.

    I know I feel that way sometimes even though I have been married for almost 25 years.

    I really hope you feel better.

    Don
     
    dlbott, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  5. surfaddict

    surfaddict Active Member

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    #25
    Why you need someone to love you? Love is a pain killer that will killed you if you overdose.

    So, segregate your love to any type of pet, a lot of job, your family and friend. Let love be the last thing in your life.

    Honestly, I'm in deep pain because of loving someone. The pain can't be cure easily and already make my heart apart. So, beware with that feeling since it can "kill" you.
     
    surfaddict, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  6. hello_welcome

    hello_welcome Well-Known Member

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    #26
    it is completely mantel behave to fell lonely; if you don't fell lonely then you are ok; by the way we are here for you, we are also love you so hope you never fell lonely good luck
     
    hello_welcome, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  7. mr moro

    mr moro Member

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    #27
    i think if u tell us any information about u, we can help u
     
    mr moro, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  8. Hakkairu

    Hakkairu Well-Known Member Affiliate Manager

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    #28
    Suck it up and get a dog
     
    Hakkairu, Mar 21, 2008 IP
  9. zcy3270

    zcy3270 Active Member

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    #29
    Find some friend in real world and go to do some outdoors sport.
     
    zcy3270, Mar 22, 2008 IP
  10. fasttrack

    fasttrack Banned

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    #30
    Why don't you got meet some people, lol
     
    fasttrack, Mar 22, 2008 IP
  11. vibinhari

    vibinhari Notable Member

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    #31
    Aww... quit wallowing in self pity and get out there and make some friends! The more drunk they are the better :D
     
    vibinhari, Mar 23, 2008 IP
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    #32
    Why is it that you think no one loves you
     
    deftones, Mar 23, 2008 IP
  13. sheilasultani

    sheilasultani Peon

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    #33
    Do some volunteeer work. Join a gym, go to church/mosque/synagogue -
     
    sheilasultani, Mar 23, 2008 IP
  14. dlbott

    dlbott Peon

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    #34
    The people who bash are the ones who really need help. You should not bash anyone, ever. If you can't say something nice, don't say it. Keep your sarcasm to yourself. It serves no useful purpose.

    Sheila, some good advice.
     
    dlbott, Mar 23, 2008 IP
  15. edenz

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    #35
    nice advice. however, I am in same state. I tried. but iguess god doesnt like me at all. whenever i try to enter temple i felt sick
     
    edenz, Mar 23, 2008 IP
  16. sheilasultani

    sheilasultani Peon

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    #36
    Sounds like you might need to talk to someone who is a professional with this type of issue. You should go to your family Dr to rule out anything chemical (depression) and then maybe some type of therapist. I've been through this myself - I moved somewhere new and was too shy to get out and meet anyone, I finally forced myself to join a gym (just getting out there that first time is the hardest- I made some great friends there. You could also look for support groups online or in your area. They have support groups for everything.
     
    sheilasultani, Mar 24, 2008 IP
  17. digitalduke

    digitalduke Notable Member

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    #37
    "Do you need some time...on your own

    Do you need some time...all alone

    Everybody needs some time...

    on their own

    Don't you know you need some time...all alone....."


    Any1 remember this AWESOME song???
     
    digitalduke, Mar 24, 2008 IP
  18. tawfiq

    tawfiq Peon

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    #38
    do not be sad ..
    you have good helth , millions do not have it ...
    do not be sad you sleep when you like some they can not
    do not be sad .. read usefull books..visit your parent and serve them .. help others .. visit hosital and see the blessing of GOD ...
    DO NOT BE SAD ALLAH (GOD) WITH US ...
     
    tawfiq, Mar 24, 2008 IP
  19. Healthtips Sportstraining

    Healthtips Sportstraining Peon

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    #39
    firstly You should Love Yourself-
    there are things you can do to boost your self-love.
    1-Ask for a list of things people like about you.
    2-Make a list of the things you like about yourself.
    3-Make it part of your daily routine to praise something in yourself or think about something you like about yourself.
    4-Love yourself like a friend
    5-Make a note every time someone says something nice about you.
    6-Have compassion for yourself.
    7-Recognize that the love has to come from you.
    8-Counteract Negative or Critical Thoughts About Yourself
    9-Do Comforting and Nurturing Things For Yourself
    10-Ask Yourself What You Need to Do
     
  20. Chris9288

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    #40
    Hey..same here..
    but i'll avoid that with some music or work...
     
    Chris9288, Jan 20, 2011 IP