I love this girl but ...

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by technolarity, Feb 18, 2008.

  1. W1908

    W1908 Active Member

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    #21
    K well i dont know your ages or backgrounds or whatever, nor i understand a woman completely ( i think no guy really does ;) ) but it seems to me that she is not really interested, rather be friends with you if your relationship was great before your proposal, and is ingnoring you now because she is afraid that she will hurt your feelings and/or her own.

    Again, im not a expert with my 35 yrs, but i would say to here 'k sorry shouldnt have done that or what ever' and try to fix this situation.

    if you cant do that because youre to crazy for her or what then would to suggest to let her go, as again what the others stated, there are enough girls around.

    I now this is kinda harsh and maybe youre saying 'yeah sure easy for you to say' but believe me, ALL the guys have been here and it also wont be the last time im afraid also ;)

    If she was interested she would have say yeah right.


    TC and good luck ;)
     
    W1908, Feb 18, 2008 IP
  2. tarponkeith

    tarponkeith Well-Known Member

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    #22
    Amen... Soooo true...
     
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  3. bogart

    bogart Notable Member

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    #23
    You can always ask her if there is any chance that she will change her mind.

    You kind of blew it proposing to her as it doesn't appear that she has any mind to presently marry.
     
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  4. pipsbank

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    #24
    personally i think this girl is a lesbian, what do you say?
     
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  5. readezarchive

    readezarchive Active Member

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    #25
    Women are tricky like that. I would definately suggest moving on and forgetting about her. Just like the other replies, it works wonders for the women! It seems like reverse logic to a man, but trust me.. There's nothing a woman hates more than to not be notices, and they will do everything in their power to get that attention back. ESPECIALLY if you used to give her much attention. So go flirt around with other girls, and seriously get her out of your mind. Woman can sense even if you think about them! SO STOP IT, RIGHT NOW!
     
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  6. Jon1771

    Jon1771 Well-Known Member

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    #26
    There are plenty of women out there, and maybe you have feelings for her, but if something happens to me I think: 'It was meant to be'. Me and my gf split up before christmas, we loved each other, and on new years we were back together, I didn't beg her or plea to her, It was just meant to be!
     
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  7. technolarity

    technolarity Well-Known Member

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    #27
    Could be ...
     
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  8. TheVccMatey

    TheVccMatey Peon

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    #28
    Dude, listen to guy with the most experience in this area. ME!
    If that girl ignores you, dont let that ruin your mood. IGNORE HER! It worked for me. But in your case there isn't much time left. 3-5 months? Sad. Leave it. College is one place where you see girls in every corner. And seeing that a lot of guys proposed to her, she must be really pretty. Guess its just an infatuation. You'll get over it. I did.:D:)

    Plus yea - she might be a lesbian. :D
     
    TheVccMatey, Feb 18, 2008 IP
  9. SEOBusiness

    SEOBusiness Well-Known Member

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    #29
    Give what she really wants,safety,Money and Sex. :D
     
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  10. technolarity

    technolarity Well-Known Member

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    #30
    Nah i have liked a lot of girls , but still i feel different for her .
     
    technolarity, Feb 18, 2008 IP
  11. natalie18

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    #31
    Okay. Let's go down with basics.

    1. She starts to ignore you after proposing yourself for her.
    2. She turns down a couple of guys and you're unfortunately one of them
    3. She would be joining college within 3-4 months

    I don't know the real story behind it but some of us prioritizes what's more important for them rather than having boyfriends and such. She wants to study first, boyfriends later.
     
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  12. Dondon2d

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    #32
    Maybe she's ignoring you so she could forget you? She knows for a fact that you will be apart after 3-4 months so she thought that it would be better to stay away.

    She loves you man, but it could be the other way 'round.
     
    Dondon2d, Feb 19, 2008 IP
  13. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #33
    Just ignore her or be intimate with her best friend.
     
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  14. apkapio

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    #34
    best of luck dude
    hope you would got her!
     
    apkapio, Feb 19, 2008 IP
  15. technolarity

    technolarity Well-Known Member

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    #35
    Yeah Definitely would need to do that .
     
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  16. Dondon2d

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    #36
    For the record, why don't you try proposing to her best friend instead?
     
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    #37
    If she is going away, try talk to her alot before she goes, get her details so you can meet up, as friends, stuff could happen from there
     
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  18. cool_78

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    #38
    I think you should just forget about her. Her reaction to your proposal means she's just not into you. I am sure there are lots of girls that you will meet in the future.
     
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  19. FreelanceFirm

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    #39
    A fact of Life:

    A Girl may not help you to get lot of salary but a good salary will help you to get a lot of girls.


    So just concentrate on your career and you will see a lot of girls being attracted towards you :D
     
    FreelanceFirm, Feb 19, 2008 IP
  20. leandar

    leandar Well-Known Member

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    #40
    in my experience there have some different type of ideas ( your proposal was wrong , girls don't like direct proposal )

    1, find out whats that girl interested in , songs , sports , chess you must study those and attack her with that moment ( don't say her just show your talent in accidentally )
    2, make a better friendship with her brother , dad ... be best friend of her family
    3, any way say her sorry for that proposal , say her that was my big wrong in my life i never say like that anymore again .... blha blha blha ... ( she must be in sentimental ..lol )
    4, every day speck her with some funny words , girls like funny man

    you have to pay me $10 paypal for more tricks and tips ... ask buffalo about my love making :D
     
    leandar, Feb 19, 2008 IP