Suggestion needed for first meeting (arrange marriage)

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  1. Kath

    Kath Peon

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    #21
    Just be your self mate, be funny, charming and listen to her. What ever you do, do NOT pretend to be something you are not, girls know when one is for real and when one is not and there is nothing worse then when a man tries to be someone else.. I wish you good luck :)
     
    Kath, Feb 13, 2008 IP
  2. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #22
    What a suggestion man.. You surely a experienced person on this. :p
     
    Abhik, Feb 13, 2008 IP
  3. wisdomtool

    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #23
    We are from totally different culture so I cant fathom your feelings at this moment, but maybe just be relax and be yourself, try to understand her character as much as possible and from there you and her can make your decision. Good luck and Best Wishes!
     
    wisdomtool, Feb 13, 2008 IP
  4. getjimmy

    getjimmy Prominent Member

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    #24
    No dude,he is still single.
     
    getjimmy, Feb 13, 2008 IP
  5. it career

    it career Notable Member

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    #25
    It would be all acting , the real face you will come to see only after you get married, if you happen to go ahead, make sure to hire a detective to find out whether she is already having few full fledged relations and she is marrying you just because you belong to her caste and her parents are not allowing to marry someone she likes, I know atleast 50 software engineers who had to spend weeks in jail for false dowry harassment/domestic violance case.
     
    it career, Feb 13, 2008 IP
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    #26
    The tip is dont make it an interview just be with her as you be with your friends.
     
    manisht07, Feb 13, 2008 IP
  7. Blogmaster

    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    #27
    You should go on webcam chat with her first, if you don't like each others, it will be easier to bail.
    You can shut it off and blame it on a power outage or bad connection.
     
    Blogmaster, Feb 21, 2008 IP