You can try webceo, for example. You will not only find link partners, but also will will get an ability to monitor your backlink agreements then.
Ya......indeed. SEOElite is better tool than others.......it have lot of features other than showin you list for reciprocal link partners........you must go for it...
I am absolutely against it. But you need to check what tool is better for you. The thing is SEO Elite is usually said to be good in finding reciprocal links partners. But comparing to others it is not that great. I said that I would prefer Web CEO for this task and I can explain. WebCEO gives you more information about partners found (in addition to Google PR and Alexa traffic rank it tells you if your partner is listed in directories, its meta data, and amount of site's backlinks). With WebCEO you can use customizable templates and send letters both manualy and in bulk. Also you can use WebCEO ability to send a cycle of 3 letters automatically. When you monitor backlink agreements, you can see not only if the link is present, but Keywords in Partner's link text, Google PR of the partner's page, Partner's outbound links and cloaking absence. But of course you are the one to choose