On relationships. People don't deserve me. I do everything in my control to keep a relationship going with someone I really want to be with and it just ends like this? No explination, well all she said was that she feels different now. I'm 90% sure there is another guy involved. I'm 100% sure that if there is i've just given her money to go and see this prick. I'm sure I want to know the truth about why she broke up with me, I can't even sleep now because of it, i've been awake for 2 days so far, it'll be 3 soon. I'll lay it out so people understand. She broke up with me Xmas eve. Just before I had to go to my first proper shift at work. I did bugger all at new year cause of her. I had to go on holiday with her 2nd-10th of Jan, that was weird. She was all over me on holiday, close to me, but not sex or anything. After the holiday she was upset cause she hardly had money to travel to college or anything, so I gave her £60 asking her to paint me an A2 painting of my kittens (something i've wanted her to do for me anyway...) to help her out. Now I think she has used this money to go see another guy. She went away to someones flat the weekend before she broke up with me, she said it was a guy called Ross' (but this isn't the guy I think she's broken up with me for, he is a stoner, she hates that kind of thing, so I think it was someone elses flat she went to that weekend). She couldn't get a signal there. I now can't phone her, so i'm assuming she is at the same place this weekend (from the day after we got back from holiday). I can't sleep cause i'm not sure if the thoughts of her with another guy are true or not, and I can't even speak to her to demand the truth from her. I'm saddened, not because she broke up with me (well not as much), but because she lies to me about it, she won't tell me the truth, even though I asked her to many times and she uses my money to pay for her to go and see some arse when she knows it was to pay for her to go to college. This isn't the first time another guy has been the cause of a breakup for me, actually all the realtionships i've been in it's been cause of another guy, but this is the first time i've cared so much about it and the first time I actullly think that she cheated on me while we were going out. I cared about her more than the others, I still do to an extent, but couldn't trust her now. In conclusion, women arn't worth it and i'm not attracted to guys, so i'm pretty screwed. Okay this was just a place for me to rant. I'm just cranky, and my seat has just broken to top it all off...
Ouch man, really feeling for you. Also, sorry that it keeps happening to you, but don't stop searching for another girl. There are girls that won't go to another guy just because of money, just keep looking.
Sorry to hear, to me it sounds like you are thinking too much, maybe she isnt with another guy, but you are just imagining it all because thats what you are forcing yourself to think as the only explanation
It wasn't cause of money. I'm just pretty sure I gave her money that she has used to go and see this prick. and if she isn't with another guy then she is somewhere else where she can't get a signal, which isn't her home cause she gets a signal there, and it's not her 3 best mates houses. Plus the only text i've got from her said "i'm not ignoring you. Take care of me, i'm sick". Who goes out when they are sick?
I have no idea. She won't tell me anything but she feels different now. I'm not even sure there is another guy.
You said she left you a text saying... What if she is sick? Maybe there is something wrong with her and she doesn't want to tell you? Hope you situation improves and you can overcome this. Good luck Daniel
All guys have been through this or something similar. It truly sucks. You cry(not sure if you have) mope around etc. Then you get over it eventually. Cause you have to. Then you're your old self again. The night I found out my girlfriend was done with me, I heard she was at a resturaunt with her friend and another guy. I raced over there and we talked outside..She said she was giving me another chance. So I felt I had hope. Then the next day was Valentines day , so I went to get some flowers and all that. I got soaked from the rain and spent an hour trying to pick out the perfect card...She never answered my call. A year later we talked on new years eve. She said it was extremely hard for her to do that to me, but she had to for her sake. All I did was drink a little..And accidentally cheated once :[
I knoww. It was terrible of me but it was kind of in the middle of my party days. She was a good girl and didnt do that kind of stuff. I regret it trust me.