Is it ok to loose your virginity before Marriage?

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Is it ok to loose your virginity before Marriage?

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  2. No

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  3. I Don't know!!!

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  1. Nosfer

    Nosfer Well-Known Member

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    #61
    lol:) it's surely ok to loose it. i've lost mine at 16.

    as for my future wife, i'd like if she's not a virgin anymore. she's got experience in bed and i won't have to do ALL the things.
     
    Nosfer, Dec 31, 2007 IP
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    #62
    LOL hopefully this is true in many part of the world..but not in India....I dont say it is wrong..it depends on one own's value
     
    sudarshannus, Dec 31, 2007 IP
  3. musman1986

    musman1986 Banned

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    #63
    it is neither true in pakistan. People in asian countries don't loose their virginity only to have experience of something like that.
     
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    #64
    Really? Here in America everybody does it with everybody:D
     
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    htmlindex Prominent Member

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    #65
    I've gotta move to the US to get more action :D
     
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    harshakiran Notable Member

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    #66
    in all countries its ame

    except that place i live south asia
     
    harshakiran, Dec 31, 2007 IP
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    #67
    You do realize I was kidding right? Here is America we are all virgins until marriage:D
     
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    musman1986 Banned

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    #68
    What a joke man. But the point remain the same why to loose it. Give another reason other then experience thing or something like that.
     
    musman1986, Jan 1, 2008 IP
  9. Matsuri

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    #69
    Is marriage is about marrying a virgin person?

    I would say.. having sex before marriage is not a big deal.
     
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    #70
    I think it is fine. Of course when I was younger I thought differently. Since my family is very religious I always said I'd wait until I got married but that didn't end up happening. Honestly though I see nothing wrong with it, your decision really.
     
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    #71
    For those who are thinking about this in regards to the Bible's or God's point of view, you might want to look up the word "fornication" and then look up what the Bible says about how God feels about it.
     
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  12. pingpong123

    pingpong123 Well-Known Member

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    #72
    It all depends on your point of view of sex before marriage. If you believe that intimacy should be saved for the one you will truely love for the rest of your life then i would say that morals still count for something. Why do you think we have such a huge divorce rate these days. My parents were both virgins before marriage and they been married 43 years strong. My brother was one until he got married at 26 , and im 40 and still one and do not plan to lose it till marriage. How can i truely tell a girl i love without loving her completely. To me that means saving all of me for her. I also realize that one day my kids are gonna ask me about premarital sex, but they cant say (" well dad you did it so that means we can:D), and they cant say that they grew up in a different country then i did, cause i grew up in america. I have friends that are virgins and friends that arent virgins, but they know my stance on this and we both respect each other.
     
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    #73

    Matsuri, marriage is sacrad but sex isnt??????
     
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    #74
    yes it's fine in most cultures, it's only religion that forbids it. If anything it's perfectly natural. Of course it can be a personal choice, and there's nothing wrong with that either.
     
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    #75
    It's fun, it feels good, it's cozy... As an atheist I only have one life, why waste years worth of having sex because someone came up with this idea of "not having sex until marriage"?

    When (if) you finally get to have sex you'll realize what you've missed out on. :rolleyes:
     
    Mysmasken, Jan 3, 2008 IP
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    #76
    I would say yes :)
     
    tokyoice, Jan 3, 2008 IP