ok so what the difference betweeen de-indexed and banned? if my site was deindexed , when i search for site:domain.com and results shows my index page only that means im only deindexed ?
Two different things in relation to this. Banned is permanent Can be for dozens of reasons, from cloaks, to bad links, to doorway pages to making a pass at the wrong person at the Google Xmas shindig. Deindexed resembles a ban but in this case is a shot across the bows, a wake up call that G is pissed off. You will probally auto reindex but loose your ranking. Google has caught you link buying.