I am sure you are the best one to be giving advice. With that attitude on women, I am sure they are just lining right up for you!
This is why I'm glad I know one of the few guys in this world who doesn't go by testosterone driven, chauvinistic, sayings. This, like many other posts in this thread have been reflections as to why some guys will probably die alone.
I called her and she is not having any of it, I don't think am I wus, I was national karate champion when I was 16 so I don't think that is a fair comment to make, am just not insecure so am not afraid to express love, guys who have to play macho man 24/7 are usually insecure to be honest. The only reason she wont go back with me is she says that God has told her that I am not the right guy, if we took religion out of the equation then she would be with me so how the hell do I get around that one, she turned to religion when I was gone because she found comfort in it which I am really happy about but I feel like she is making a mistake but obviously I can't tell her God is wrong if she feels so strongly about it. Although she has commented I still think the comments can only help, for example, if I managed to get like 1,000+ comments then that is going to make her think a little am sure. Again, I really appreciate all the video comments and ratings, you never know, it might just work in the end even if it looks like am just a desperate guy or something, I am desperate but that is because we were so right for each other.
Peoples beliefs can be a b*$ch, I lost my last gf cause she was very Christian and I couldn't cope with no physical stuff till after marrage (I'm only 18, I want to live before getting married anyway, so it just wasn't right). The best thing you can do is just keep trying. The video might not be enough for her. I commented and rated anyway. All the best, TS
Well I hope she comes back to you, What a bummer that you lost her... It's a pretty nice video Try do something really extravagant like filling her house with rose petals or something (I'm not very original ) Or something like a Pizza that has I love you or something (I know, Not original either) Good luck all the same
I just listen to the song lyrics: "And you coming back to me is against all odds That's the chance I've got to take" I have made a little progress today, she is letting me talk to her and is also responding to my messages, I am talking to her as a friend instead of bombarding her about being together. I think she is using religion to cover up how she really feels about me and I have done all I can do, she knows how I feel and am leaving it up to her to do something about it if she wants. In the mean time I still want to cranck the views and comments up on the video because I know she watches it, she has looked at least 3 times I know so your comments may just be making all the difference DP could be a dating site haha, I posted here because I hang out here a lot anyway so I thought I may aswell. Thanks all, keep those comments going if you have a moment!
I am sure she knows you love her. Don't know what went wrong. Just don't act needy or you will push her away. Go read "The Game" by Niel Strauss.
QFT! I would certainly have felt special being that girl, and as long as she hasn't found someone new I think your trick could work. Don't listen to the all the "macho" guys... I much prefer a guy that is open with his feelings and no macho all the time. But who am I to talk... I'm just a girl. Glad to hear you're making some progress. Who knows, maybe CBS or WB will come and ask for the right to make a movie when you get her back (I guess you all read about the "NY girl of my dreams", hehe. I rated it and commented. Good luck.
I would have a hard time taking you back after that. How does she know she can trust you not to flake on her again?
Well if she turned to religion from the break up, you must of really hurt her. I honestly say leave her alone. I know you love her and she probably does too, but just leave her alone. I know she is letting you talk to her, but it could seriously hurt her worse. I had a guy do something similar for four years, and all I wanted was for him to go away. A matter a fact I wouldn't be surprised if he contacted me anytime soon. It's crazy. Anyways if you can't leave her alone forever at least give it a year or so.
Hi, You have told u have loose your girl friend. But Not explained what was the exact reason 4 that one. Then how can anybody help or suggest you. If u really love her & she also loves u everthing will be normal soon. Try to solve out problem with yourself. Good Luck dear