Is this cheating?

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  1. sb1234

    sb1234 Banned

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    #61
    its cheating

    break up then do your thing
     
    sb1234, Oct 29, 2007 IP
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    #62
    yeah..cause u were still technically together with that other person...
     
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  3. OneOfEm

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    #63
    Cheating.

    The "no guy friends" thing is kind of twisted, too. Perhaps there are other reasons that things weren't working out with your old pet girlfriend. I mean... in your "what if" scenario...
     
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  4. Cylon

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    #64
    all of you who say dudes can totally be friends with women and not want to have sex must be youngsters. I used to think that too. As you get older, you'll see thats not the case.
     
    Cylon, Oct 29, 2007 IP
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    #65
    Your r right !! They will be able to know them self as they will grw older !!
     
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  6. OneOfEm

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    #66
    43. I used to think that wasn't the case, then (when I was your age) I thought it was the case, then I got older still and realized it's not.
     
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  7. DeniseJ

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    #67
    You're wrong.

    I just moved in with my best friend (male.) He and I are friends, always have been and always will be. We've never had sex and he's never TRIED to have sex with me.

    You must be a guy with a one-track mind... I can see how it would be difficult to be strictly friends with a girl when all you think about is sex. :rolleyes:
     
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  8. Blogmaster

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    #68
    Ever seen that movie when Harry meets Sally? :D
     
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  9. DeniseJ

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    #69
    Yes - but I don't live in the movies :p
     
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    #70
    The moral of that movie is that men and women will NEVER be able to understand one another completely.
     
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  11. DeniseJ

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    #71
    I don't need to watch a movie to know that... although I disagree with that statement to a point.

    Men and women can learn to understand one another (at least where it counts) by being WILLING to understand the various dynamics between the way males and females interact.

    If we can figure out where the opposite sex is coming from, it's that much easier to understand one another.
     
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  12. Freelance GD

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    #72
    Technically, its not cheating coz you were about to break up.

    Emotionally, Its cheating.

    PS: Did you see "The Mating Habits of the Earthbound Human" :rolleyes:
     
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  13. DeniseJ

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    #73
    Since when is "about to break up" considered ACTUALLY broken up?

    But hey, whatever you have to tell yourself to live with your actions... in my book it's cheating - period.
     
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    Freelance GD Well-Known Member

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    #74
    No, but they are fed up with the relationship and that means there is just so called relationship. Break it or keep it, doesn't matter and doesn't even make sense.
     
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  15. sb1234

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    #75
    Cheating = not being faithful

    if you are in a relationship with one person and you sleep with another (regardless of what you plan on doing) You are in fact cheating.

    Untill you call the girl or guy or whatver, and break it off, your obligated to be faithful.

    I have other comments but it would open another can of worms
     
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  16. DeniseJ

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    #76
    If someone is truly fed up with a relationship then they should break it off before they run off and sleep with someone else.
     
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  17. Cylon

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    #77
    SB open up that can. this place is just for talking, give us something to talk about.

    Maybe there are some dudes that can be friends with women, I mean there are metro men. But I'm a real man, a rugged lumberjack. And I don't have women friends.
     
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    #78
    Thats right and I agree thats why I said 'Emotionally, Cheating'
     
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  19. DeniseJ

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    #79
    So... "real men" can't have women friends?

    That's hilarious. I'm of the opinion it's the other way around.
     
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  20. sb1234

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    #80
    The only way a man can be friends with a woman without some kind of lustful feeling, is if hes homosexual, Sorry Denise, i agree with most of your statements, but I'm a man, and not one with a one track mind, but Ive experienced a similar situation. Your friend will eventually hit on you, chances are he already has, and due to your friendship you didn't even realize it. He may not act on his feelings, but i guarantee you, he thanks about you in a lustful way. Hes a man, it comes natural to us. Any man that denies that is lieing.
     
    sb1234, Oct 29, 2007 IP