Trust and respect are two things which mean a lot to me. If I loved my partner, I would never be unfaithful to them no matter what the situation. I just broke up with my partner after a year, things werent working since I found out she kissed someone I worked with about four months ago. I was reading in the paper a while back some statistics (UK), including one in three women admit to have cheating on their partners whilst on holiday with friends. In magazines where readers can write in, all I see is people admitting to having affairs. On TV, people cheating everywhere as if it's normal. It disgusts me. How can I feel secure in a relationship when all I see is partners being unfaithful to eachother. What's the point in being in a relationship when you can't trust someone. If there's no trust, there's nothing.
I wouldn't cheat. But my girl really doesn't trust me for some reason and it annoys me a bit, but I think shes just paranoid as shes been cheated on before.
Sorry to hear that.. I know a lot of people cheat but it would never cross my mind. I'd break up with the person I'm with before cheating on them. Not that its better but at least its more decent than being with someone else while you're with him. But I do think that people that cheat do so because there's something wrong with their current relationship so cheating is not entirely their fault only..
Yeah you are all faithfull to your partners. But what happens if you're faithfull and she started to cheat on you? Then you will start to ask yourself. "was I stupid I didn't f*** that girl who wanted me for one night?" Now we are even because I also cheated on her...
I would never cheat, and would break up with the boy if he cheated on me. No matter how much I loved him, I couldn't let him get away with it. But I, myself, could never cheat. Even if I wanted to, I wouldn't. I don't want someone cheating on me, so I won't cheat on someone else. And it does make me nervous that so many people cheat these days, like it's no big deal. Marriage/relationships mean nothing these days.
Exactly my point. I could do it even if I tried. Relationships are supposed to be a bond between two people, but these days it's just about lust. And Mike, I agree with you. It destroyed my world, but the other guy suffered. I lost my job because the only way I could think of resolving it was by taking me anger out on him. Didn't make anything better though.
I won't cheat. If i found in position to that i would just tell her the i don't like her that much after all...