What's wrong with me?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by janneke, Oct 24, 2007.

  1. #1
    At least some people think me as wrong cause I am bisexual and like both men and woman. No that doesn't mean I jump in bed with both ( I am married) but I do still love watching at woman. I always kept it a secret untill recently. I am sick of lying to people. My close friends already knew and didn't care but now recently I even get mails from people. Like how I go to hell etc telling how wrong am I. Well for all those with the same opnion. There is nothing wrong with me. I love gods work! both the male and the females and there's nothing wrong with it so buzz off!!

    Ah I just needed to empty my hear. THo ofcourse it wouldn't change my mind, personal opinions would be appreciated.


    *feels sheaky telling her big secret*
     
    janneke, Oct 24, 2007 IP
  2. twistedspikes

    twistedspikes Notable Member

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    I'm straight, but have no problem with people being bisexual or even homosexual. I just don't really want any guys to hit on me.

    It's not wrong. You won't go to hell, and whoever said that to you probably is.
     
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  3. Pinup Girl

    Pinup Girl Notable Member

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    janneke, im straight,but i give all my support to gays and bisexuals,i think that everybody have to be happy,there is any problem in bisexuality,you can feel atracction to who you want and nobody have nothing to do with this,the life is yours and you need to do what you like!
     
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  4. gabbs22

    gabbs22 Peon

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    who cares what sexual orientation you have.... why should we even have to discuss it , its just anything else, people are different from each other , no one is the same
     
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  5. mightyb

    mightyb Banned

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    So do you just like watching men? I dont think that makes you bi. I think gays/bi are very usefull anyway. Each gay couple = 2 single chicks for us :D
     
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    Half my friends are bisexual and I could care less. If anyone makes fun of them for it though, I make sure to give em h3ll for it. It’s totally okay, and shouldn’t mater to anyone.
     
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  7. samantha pia

    samantha pia Prominent Member

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    i'm lesbian and i dont care who knows or what they say, the sad thing is that most guys want us to be bisexual so we get them the extra gurls.

    the women that say they are 100% straight and tell me i'll burn in hell for being lesbian, only do so because they are to scared to follow their own lesbian feelings and have sex with another women.

    most of the idiots dont know the difference between lesbian and bisexual. i have had a few girls say "wow i've never had bi sex before" and they look at me strange when i tell them they just had lesbian sex, one flew off the handle screaming "i'm bisexual not a dyke" well hello, you and me in the bed, not a guy in the house, so where did the bisexual sex enter? just us two, thats lesbian sex.

    and lets not start trying to explain that we never had sex, we just had mutual masturbation. i think that just confuses them even more.
     
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    clinton Well-Known Member

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    haha ur right!!!!
     
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    anurag_online Well-Known Member

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    Frankly speaking WHO THE HELL CARES???? if you are nice to deal with no one should care about this... so be happy and enjoy.
     
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  10. uglyboy

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    Nothing.. People of a different sexual orientation from you are just trying to impose their values on you. As long as you are happy and nobody is getting hurt it it doesn't really mater what other people think. As for the emails, Isn't that what the spam filter is for.. BE HAPPY.:)
     
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  11. janneke

    janneke Well-Known Member

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    I don't have watched only ;) (o boy that sentence is so wrong lol) And no I have never done a threesome and never will. :)
     
    janneke, Oct 29, 2007 IP
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    It is nice that you have found the courage to tell your secret. At least you got it off your chest :)
     
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    ammoun Active Member

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    Wait , are u a male or a female ?
     
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    Whitey Active Member

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    Im going to be perfectly honest. I dont care. That is I dont care that your bi ;)

    Have you considered reporting the mails to the police or something?
     
    Whitey, Oct 29, 2007 IP
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    waxingpoetic Well-Known Member

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    Well...I'm glad someone finally brought this up. I've wanted to ask questions about gay niches, etc. and have been guarded.

    I'm a lesbian, and out in all the circles I currently run in...however, I am from the South and have been closeted in the past due to religious beliefs, etc. I'm hesitant to tell new groups until I have been around a minute and feel comfortable.

    There is NOTHING wrong with you and contrary to popular belief, you are NOT going to hell for being bi, gay, lesbian, transgendered...or anything else. Do any of you have sites, blogs, etc. regarding gay issues? Samantha Pia...I saw the links in your sig, and I plan to visit when I complete this post.

    I am considering starting a blog that holds tightly to this niche. Don't be afraid to share your thoughts and support our members who have alternative lifestyles.
     
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  16. StepUp

    StepUp Active Member

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    The only thing wrong with you is you're human like the rest of us, and we all have niches about ourselves that we do not like, or fear others will not like. Simply put, live like you wish to and not how others wish you to. :)
     
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  17. dragonflies

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    Be yourself! Be unqiue! Be you ! Don't care what others think not even your best of friends. In the end everyones your friend till the rents due !

    I'm staig8t . It takes all to make the world go round. How boring it would be if everyone was like me.
     
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  18. twistedspikes

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    It'd be fun, we would all have monkeys...:p hahaha.

    But seriously, to anyone who is gay/bi and hiding it, just come out, you'll feel much better after doing so, even if you upset people for a while from it (such as parents or whoever). If they are decent people then they should accept you for who you are.

    I mean, i'm straight, but i'd rather know if one of my mates is gay/bi, i'd even support them if they were.
     
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  19. Maxell

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    In all the religions there are limitations, these are to avoid social conflicts, diseases and other major problems, people do NOT accept gays, lerbians becuase this is un-natural, un-ethical, against nature, stupid and SICK I would call.

    as far as going to hell for any reason is anything you do that causes conflicts, deaths, diseases and loss of humainity would take you to hell for sure.
     
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    I think that the only wrong thing it's that you are to much of about others people opinion insted of concentrating on your own life...
     
    redhits, Oct 29, 2007 IP