Something is going crazy google is not indexing my site! when i do a search for it on google it shows links but no indexing. how could i get banned without even been indexed in the first place?
listing url at your signature. if it always useles refer to:Get Indexed by Google in Less than 24 Hours
I think google doesn't indexed the other site because of duplicate content. Try to create unique content for your site.
Unless your domain is something like 037c279-2bfc23.com, there is a chance it has been registered, used and banned in the past.