The worlds worst feeling :(

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Silver89, Oct 6, 2007.

  1. #1
    I've been with my gf now since 1/1/07, however today she told me she no longer loves me and i'm not the person she wants, but we've been together all day and had a wonderfull time, i believe she just said that because she got abit angry at me :(

    I love this girl, i may only be 18 but i've shared so many amazing moments with this girl in 9 months and shes been a major part of my life.

    This evening i took her home and now she never wants too see me again, i just sent her a lengthy email about us a pray that tomorrow morning i may get some sort of positive reply.

    My heart hurts so bad :( It feels like something missing ....
     
    Silver89, Oct 6, 2007 IP
  2. dimeadozen

    dimeadozen Guest

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    #2
    Wow that's so sad , I am sorry hopefully she will come to her senses and maybe a little time apart will help her to realize she is wrong...and she will call you .
     
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  3. leandar

    leandar Well-Known Member

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    #3
    :confused: Then what was wrong ?
     
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  4. tarponkeith

    tarponkeith Well-Known Member

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    #4
    Wow,
    you need to go back to dating school :)
    1) don't seem too needy, they hate it
    2) hang out with your guy friends, they'll see that your social life doesn't revolve around them
    3) if she wants to break up, hand her stuff back to her, maybe you'll be calling her bluff
    4) if she's determined to end it, fine... why would you be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
     
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  5. buffalo

    buffalo Illustrious Member

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    Sorry to hear about that. But don't worry about it too much yet. Things may look differently in the morning... If they don't then she's not the girl for you and you need to move on.
     
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  6. prinzcy

    prinzcy Active Member

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    Just give her some time, she might come around.
     
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    #7
    is this your first heart break?
     
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  8. Jerlene.net

    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    #8
    I know exactly how that feels. It sucks. They always came back though.

    Question - If you spent all day and it was amazing, why would she have gotten angry?
     
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    prinzcy Active Member

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    Maybe he did something that offended her without his knowledge.

    Look, if you really like her, just go to her now and talk.
     
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    I am sorry to hear about your situation, but don't be sad since there are lots of girls still out there and take this as an opportunity to look for someone who you are more compatible with.
     
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  11. Pauline

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    I completely agree.
     
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    longhornfreak Well-Known Member

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    #12
    i second that too
     
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    #13
    Atleast pain never lasts forever, just try to think about it that way (though easier said than done).
     
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    KingofKings Banned

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    The Pain doesn't, but the memories do, and when the memories hit in... sadness.
     
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    That would be enough for me thank you very much!

    Play it cool mate...shrug it off like your not bothered either way, but don't over do the not caring let her know how you feel and leave it at that.

    When you meet up with her next SMILE - LOOK HAPPY woman do not like sulky weak men regardless that your hurting. Be fun to be around let her know what she's going to miss...if she still does not want to be with you SO WHAT? there are thousands of beautiful woman out there.

    Your from Kent right? get yourself to Maidstone on a Saturday night...the bars are full of good looking girls The Source Bar is one of them....your only young stand up straight and take it like a man :) get out with ya mates and have some fun.
     
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  16. Silver89

    Silver89 Notable Member

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    Thats weird, i live 10 mins away from maidstone, didn't know anyone that local on here.
     
    Silver89, Oct 7, 2007 IP