I am fully frustrated......!!!!!

I live in Ahemdabad (India), I am of 14 years old. I do all kinds of work like washing house, dusting and shopping for mother, brother and father, but none of them appreciates me... everyone in the house torchers me and abuses to me, like if i do just one mistake than everyone starts saying in a bad and frustrating style "you are wicked, cant do anywork properly... when you will earn a 1 thing than you will know the value of mother and father"... But I earns money too like 300 dollars per month. Everyone expresses there thoughts on me like "This boy is useless" "This boy will never do anything in there life", If i tries to say that i am not wrong than they starts beating me.... They trusts on outsiders more than me.

Need help... for the solution on this problem...

Jay

 

Earn loads of money from the internet, and use it to move out. Do it without telling your parents and prove them wrong.

Rob

 

Jay, first of all I like to say that don't take anything in a negative way... I guess you are little in your home... but even if you are not then just learn things from your experiences.

Me too used to think that my parents don't love me and they don't like me at all and thats why they keep abusing me like you said, but now when I am mature I can understand why they used to do that with me. it was just to teach us and tell us what is good and what is bad.

you too dont' take anything seriously and don't think that they don't like you. Every mother and father LOVE their children equally and they just want to make you mature enough.

Be positive.

 

Prove them wrong and rub it in their faces!

 

See I too much busy because my parents dont even gets tired in giving me work, so thats why $300 is ok, I gives all $300 in maintanance of my house because they have said to earn money for house or i will get kicked out....

You have said that prove them that they are wrong... I am hinduism.. according to this religion this is crime to prove your own parents wrong.

Jay

 

Thanks for this lesson, I have so examine in this alot...

Jay

 

Your life is important than religion. I dumped my religion (Christianity) and turned Atheist. I would never turn back again.

In the UK, everyone has formed a 'put yourself first' attitude to everything including when driving.

Rob

 

Just take these things a challenges and use them as inspriration to do better in life.

--Joe

 

Thanks thats a cool way.. Need more suggesstions...

Jay

 

Hey Man,

Just take it positive.
I just can't believe it that they are doing this type of behavior with you though you are earning a good amount ($300 = 12,000 Rs.)

I am also in Ahmadabad, Gujarat (India) and I know this is a good amount. I am knowing some peoples whose earning is just just 5000-6000/Month ($150) and they are living very happily with their family even they are having 1-2 children. So I am really surprised .. In which area you are living Mate???

 

Pmed a pm to you.

Jay

 

When someone is wrong he/she is wrong. No matter who he/she is. Earn money and buy your own house. Also try to save some money. Don't tell anybody your actual earnings per month. I feel sorry for you and condemn the bad behavior of your parents.

Are they really your PARENTS?

 

How i can buy a house? I am of just 14 years, agreement and registry is valid for 18 years+ yeah i can get one for rent... And yes they are my parents lol...

Jay

 

Maybe you should have a heart to heart talk with your family. From what you have said, it doesn't appear that you have a very healthy relationship with your parents. But as your parents, they ,in some corner of their heart, do care for you.

 

Tell you the truth its just you who think that they are doing something wrong with you. You can sort out things just by looking and thinking that why all this happening. You are sensitive enough that you take things in wrong direction. Be positive. Prove yourself.

Parents love their children no matter how they are and what they doing. My last post was full of CRAP so ignore that

Be happy and don't waste your time thinking about that. It hurts when your parents do something like this to you but this never happens the whole life.

Good Luck!

~F-GD

 

Do not listen to their put downs and negativity about you. Study hard and get a good job or learn how to make money from the internet and prove them wrong.

 

Move to America or Canada, we love hard working people and rarely put them down!

 

I know how it feels when your parents tend to believe outsiders rather than you. It's terrible. But don't get upset. Just be calm in all situations.

Don't continue the argument/fight with your parents, no matter what it's about. When they yell at you, take everything they say in a calm manner, think about them, and if you feel like there's something in you that needs to be changed, change it. The rest of the things (crap) they say - just ignore it.

If you know that you're doing nothing wrong, that's more than enough. They will, some day, realize that they've been wrong all along.

And don't plan on moving from your house and living separately... lol... sounds good, but it's not for people of our country. It's virtually impossible to do that and live in one peace in our Indian society.

I wish you the best

 

Speak proper english first...I couldn't understand you at all.

 

Many of has given great tips, especially abhimanyu.... thanks for alll this guys...

Jay