help with a friend

She is single and knows I am married yet she keeps joking about how little sex she is getting since her b/f broke up with her three months ago ... she keeps saying how all the good guys are married or in a relationship.

What should I do? I don't really think she is trying to annoy me yet I do get a sick feeling in my stomach each time she jokes about it.

 

She's just flirting with you.. You are married dude.... What do you think you should do.. If you care about you partner this is a no brainer..

 

Should I tell her to STFU about this then?

 

Only if you can stand her flirting with you.. It wouldn't bother me, I like a bit of flirting.. Its a bit like ego stroking..

 

You have all kinds of problems with women hitting on you, don't you?

Do you have a single friend that you could set her up with?

 

Most my friends are other married guys, it is hard for us to mix with the singles out there. Too much of a glimps into the dark side of the force for us married folk.

 

In that case, if it's bothering you, you should ask her to tone it down a bit.

 

I just know she is not feeling good about herself in this department and the last thing I want to do is make her feel even worse.

 

Then you'll just have to listen to her complain.

 

Just like everything else communication is the key.. You have to make her understand that its not going anywhere.. If you are worried about making her feel bad about herself, imagine how she will feel if she thinks you are kind of leading her on.. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..

I think you are a little unsure about how you feel yourself..

 

hello there ...

i can totally relate to what you are saying i was friends with a man who had depression and as i have manic depression i felt sorry for him and gave him my mobile number ... since then ive had nothing but sex sex sex orientated texts ... i cant believe him ... ive told him to leave me alone ... even banned him from my forum !!! -- arghhhhh

i advise you to either do the same or tell them straight u will be a friend but leave the sex part out of it !!!!

 

she has not sent me any text messages about this, otherwise I would flip

 

seasix must be one sexy dude....

On a side note, ignore it.... that simple. You must have never had a girl seem the least bit interested in you when you were younger or this wouldn't even be an issue.

 

I think she likes you...Do you like her? How does she look?

 

uh, she looks like a 28 y/o runner who takes care of herself, not a bad looking woman at all IMHO

 

In my opinion, if you truly loved your wife this wouldnt even be a question regardless of what she looks like.

 

get her a link to a good online "VIBE" shop

 

Do you know of any of those, Tim??

 

Why.. are you looking too.. buff..

 

No. Just wondering about Tim's expertise in this area...