Why US/UK people are like this ?

I heard that many of the people in US and UK are having there marriage after the born of babies.

There are many who divorce and marry other people.

What can be the reason ?

Is it a good practice ?

 

Just cultural changes.

This may be of interest to you:
UK: Divorce total lowest for 29 years
Australia: Divorce rate lowest in 20 years

Could not find any recent stats for the US. Perhaps someone else can find that out.

 

People are very open there,the culture is different from country to country.

 

It's not a practice. Sometimes people think they're in love but they're really not. Sometimes people fall out of love. Sometimes people have premarital sex, not expecting to get pregnant. etc. etc.

 

Most people in Uk and US have boy friends and girl friends when they are like 15 or so. None of them are really looking at marriage seriously at that age. And marriage is an option only after serious dating of at least a couple of years. By that time some of them get pregnant.

People can't predict how they are going to behave a couple of years down. You will only find out the real nature of a partner only after living with them for a few years. Then if there is no compatibility, they tend to drift apart and end up in divorce. They don't want to stick to some one for the sake of society as in eastern countries. Or even for the sake of kids.

 

Yes , cleanwater is true , like in my country , having babies before marriage will get you to jail heh

 

Maybe it is becuase they are not people living under a unreal god and just want to find the right person for them self and enjoy there life!

 

babies are born because of love and they are the prove of their parents love which will bind them more strongly and believe me thats not a bad thing if they love each other and will stay forever.

 

i think there culture and soscitey allow to do all this things
thats why its fine for them

 

Well i don't do know about this.The best option according to me ask the UK/USA people.You will get an exact answer from them

 

Smart Answer Katy !!

 

Well in the U.S. they don't and that's the point of this thread. No one really cares anymore.

 

It's their choice and I don't see any reason you should make a thread questioning there ways!

 

He wasn't questioning anything, he was asking a question.

 

The guy decides to get married after he finds out how much child support he will be paying for the next 18 years.

 

I guess most people are deciding not to get married because of the laws that if they do get a divorce you can loose half of your owning's haha. Seriously though, I have no idea I guess it is down to the individual itself and we cant really speak for them all as a whole.

 

My friend is having a lover who is married and have a child.But in our country this practice cannot be accepted.