why do "attractive woman" fall for jerks

That's why there was a saying that "Love is Blind"
Besides we should not look on physical appearance rather on attitude

 

Its the natural law
"Opposites Attract"

 

Often women aren't falling for the jerkiness but for the confidence that
goes along with it. Jerks are usually very confident--so confident in fact
that they are completely comfortable acting like assholes and, as has
been said, will make the initial approach.

The trick is to be a confident nice guy.

At least this is what I hear from all the cute girls I eavesdrop on from
my hiding place.

Ty

 

I don't think I'm a jerk, I'm just upfront and tell it like it is when necessary... which is probably why my gf is with me (yes shes attractive)

 

It all depends on the nature of the women all women are not same have differnet tastes and choices for men.

 

I used to think that only the God knows the answer on that question. But since I grew a little bit older I began to realize that I had a lots of opportunities to be with attractive women but I didn't have enough courage to start talking with them. So, I began to realize that actually I was some kink of jerk, not the boy who dated the girl I used to like... However, there are real jerks out there and some women like to go out with them just because those women have need to be superior in regard of men and they pick up stupid ones... What a cruel world, isn't it?

 

YOU don't think

would jerks know that they are jerks, moreover would they ever admit to it?

 

Yes, I would have to agree with you. It is the confidence factor. But being a nice guy and being confident and having the ability to say "no," and make a woman "beg to get her wishes" is difficult. If you do not have these qualities you are sure to hear the dreaded "Awww...but we are just friends!"

 

Acting indifferent to women works well too because most nice guys are so happy to have finally found someone that they blow it by supplicating to them all the time.

I don't let my girlfriend get away with bad behaviour, I spend time away from her to do other stuff and don't make her out to be too special and the result is that she chases me all the time and tries to 'make me like all the other men she knows'.

Of course if that ever happened she'd lose interest but i don't let on that I know that.

 

You'd be surprised at how many of them are proud of it!

 

goes with their MO I suppose - just a bunch of Richards


no **it, you're a girl????

 

Isn't it obvious now?

 

sadly my experience has been that someone will miss the obviousness of it based on previous threads, replies, and the "thickness" of some members of the forum in general

 

Well, I think it is because some attractive women don't think very well of themselves. They come to believe they deserve that type of a man. If you have a good sense of self-worth, would you not think you are too good to be jerked or slapped around? But if you think you're a loser, you convince yourself you deserve a loser. That's my armchair psychology for the day.

 

why do "attractive woman" fall for jerks - good question.

onece they may have high expectations and got bored (Engineering Bore) to perfection and now only a jerk can handle that bore.

-- I am being bad..

(I really don't know the actual answer)

 

Before I read your comment, I was thinking, why would a bunch of guys answer like they know. But good answer! Seems like your right on the dot, because this makes alot of sense.

 

You are right, I am a jerk and am proud of it.

 

jerks --- can do those things -which a normal man cant do--they shy off

 

That's because I am a girl... (We're always right, haven't you heard?)

 

Women like to think they mature faster then men but in my experience its been the complate opposite. Any woman that falls for a jerk shows her infant immaturity, but wise men have known this throughout the ages lol

Padwan, but i dont understand why anyone would need to play these silly little kid games with women if they are mature enough to be in a real relationship?