Is she attracted to me?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by austin22, Jul 28, 2007.

  1. Padawan

    Padawan Peon

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    #21
    You should have acted straight away. By delaying you have probably already blown your opportunity.
     
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  2. B-Scott

    B-Scott Active Member

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    #22
    I think the opportunity is still there ,just strike up a conversation with her.
     
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  3. students-forum

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    #23
    I think you get the point--> talk to her. Good luck with it.
     
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  4. EasyMoney1

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    #24
    No I don't think she is .
     
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  5. mightyb

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    #25
    Find something to talk about. Something casual. Make something up. Have a look at her watch, shoes or something else and ask her where she bought it from because "you are looking for a present for you cousin and you would like to get something like that because it looks great". So now you have complemented her and engaged in casual convo. When she tells you the name of the shop repeat what she said... "Oh... Prada? Great!" stay casual... Then take it from there... You might not want to ask her out straight away. Take your time... You can do it the next time you see her. Then she will be more relaxed with you because you spoke the previous day... (Im just thinking from the top of my head here...)

    When some homeless guy asks you for some change you usually say no automatically and only then think about it. Because you were not expecting it. In the way girls "work" in the same way. You dont want to take her by surprise.

    You may ask why i recommended to repeat what the girl said? It shows her you are listening. Its all about feedback...

    I could write an essay on this :D
     
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  6. Holly

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    #26
    Even if you do talk to her, don't do it under the impression that she is "definitely" attracted to you....

    Give it some time. First strike up a chatty friendship and then after several meetings you'll know her true feelings.
     
    Holly, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  7. Dzuster

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    #27
    oh boy.. she's really atracted to you..
    make move before too late...
     
    Dzuster, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  8. ichigo

    ichigo Well-Known Member

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    #28
    She is so into you. :D
    "taking glances every 20 seconds"
     
    ichigo, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  9. Dzuster

    Dzuster Banned

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    #29
    BTW if that happen to me.. I became frozen :D
     
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  10. meshuggah

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    #30
    less talking on the interweb about 'what ifs' , more affirmative action - sit down n say hello.

    the best or worst thing that can happen is at least you'll have an answer to your question.
     
    meshuggah, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  11. Zerosleep

    Zerosleep Established User

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    #31
    * Cough * * Cough *
    So you joined DP just to ask this question ???
     
    Zerosleep, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  12. gauravjain26

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    #32
    just give it a try
    you have nothing to lose i guess
     
    gauravjain26, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  13. anions

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    #33
    Wow, you're good with this.

    Forget an essay, write up another ebook, and sell it on SP, WarriorForums and ebay, and rake in moolah :D:D
    Then, give me 25% for suggesting this in the first place(35% if you manage to find a publisher :p)
     
    anions, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  14. cool_78

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    #34
    Ask her if she went to this school because she seems familiar. Go for it! :)
     
    cool_78, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  15. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #35
    Try CountryBoy's best chat up lines:

    Do you mind if I stare at you up close instead of from across the train?

    or failing that:

    You: Is your father a lumberjack?
    Her: No, why?
    You: Because whenever I look at you, I get wood in my pants.
     
    CountryBoy, Jul 29, 2007 IP
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    #36
    Do you know her name?where she live?or other info,firstly i would like to ask you that do u like her.If you do not like that girl just ignore her.If you also like her,just be her friend firstly.
     
    Avery001, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  17. mightyb

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    #37
    Id rather use the time to get laid myself :p But yet again.... :rolleyes: hmmmm lol
     
    mightyb, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  18. students-forum

    students-forum Well-Known Member

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    #38
    LOL, I think you have caught the heart's and imagination of DP users. So .. .you have to share with us what happened!

    ...
    What happened?
     
    students-forum, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  19. anions

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    #39
    Information Overload - that is what happened :p:D
     
    anions, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  20. sidquill

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    #40
    Whitch train is that I,ll ask her for you? Ya Right
    You will never know if you don,t ask
    Or you can call sidquills matchmaking service
    Go for it and good luck.
     
    sidquill, Jul 30, 2007 IP