Hey mate,you really care about her.it is a good phenomenon,she should know your intention,but she do not refuse you.it is not important where you are going to take her to,may be a park.some where romantic,and just do something with her,together.Do something to make her feel that you do really care about her...anyway,you got the chance.
whatever you do, DO NOT let her just go.. do something, inaction is the worst move to make now. Go to her restaurant and as w3bmaster said " be brave" The rest, let your heart guide the way . Best of luck to you my friend!
stalking her at work, good idea. You think you're being brave, she thinks you're creepy. That tells me she's not interested. Did someone tell you she wasn't home and if so did you leave a message? If you left a message and she didn't get back to you, she doesn't want to see you again. If a date goes well then you both talk about what a great time you had and that you'd like to see each other again. If that discussion didn't happen, it's over. Time to move on. In fact, she may have gone out with you because it was the end of the year and she wouldn't have to see you again if it didn't work out. If she'd gone out with you sooner she would have had to deal with you at school.
You should stop in and see her at work and ask her out. But if she says no, don't stop in to see her again. That would be stalking! But there's no harm in trying it once. Take her somewhere where there is lots to do and lots of people. Maybe to a fair or an amusement park. That will give you lots of things to talk about. Places like that always have other people doing something stupid enough or interesting enough to talk about. Get her to talk about herself. Her favorite things, her goals and dreams, etc. And act like you are actually interested in her answers!
You mentioned that she works as a waitress.. don't just go randomly to visit her and ask her out. That won't work. Here is what you do: 1. find another female friend of yours 2. goto the resturant she works at with your friend for lunch or something 3. make sure she notices you with her 4. don't act interested in the girl your'e after (trust me on this), but don't be rude.. simply dont act interested i.e. starting at her etc. etc. 5. call her up (your waitress lover) a few days later and ask her if she wants to 'hang out' some time I assure you that she WILL want to hang out with you.. the rest is up to you on how you handle it. But if you do what I just outlined, she'll defintely get some interest--If she doesn't i'll paypal you $1.. lol anyways.. thats my 2cents.. good luck! p.s. don't listen to the advice about buying her stuff.. not the route you want to take
Promise her you'll give her the best 15 seconds of her entire life. If you don't know what I mean by that then you're too young.
Tell her how you REALLY feel. Some girl don't understand the hints and some doesn't know how to respond.
Just be honest, if you left messages on her phone and she did not return any of them, she is not interested and move on. If you just never got anyone when you called including an answering machine, than stop by her work on a slow time and ask her out. You will know how she feels right away by her reaction to you being there. "Top Secret Info learned late in life" Girls are just as confused, scared, nervous and dumb as boys are when it comes to dating. If you ask her out and she says no, you lost nothing but a moment of awkwardness a little pride but you will bounce back. If you pine after this girl and never make the move, you will have the what ifs your whole life. Go for it if the beginning of my psot is not true! Good luck!
right...i said funny...not act like an idiot...can u read??!!!! and wat r u dreaming...London eye...and a beach....way too romantic for the first dates... Listen a nice dinner will do it and walk around...will do the job...if she is interested...
ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.
I would suggest you go visit her at the restaurant to find out more her working environment.. so you have more conversational topics to take about next time.. Movie is not too good cos there is not much communication during that 2 hours.. go for meals or sports might be good.
You should take her to a restaurant for lunch or dinner and maybe take a small gift with you for her, or some flowers.