My home page got hits much less than the middle pages, well I do promote the middle pages these lately, but I'm just wondering if this is ok? Sorry, I'm not expert in marketing, I do programming more..
It usually means that search engines are picking up your "middle pages" as they have more content and thus, are ranking higher. Having a quick look at your website it seems to entirely be a forum, so naturally your users would want to jump straight to the main forum and skip the home page "portal". Apologies if that didn't make much sense.
that's pretty make sense, but btw, does Google update their search listing everyday? I don't think they updated yet, that's one reason.. :-/
As far as I know Google is constantly updating. It all depends on how many links are pointing towards your site. Your site has been listed though, you're #1 for the term programmerstalk.
Search listings are updated on a daily basis; however forums usually are harder to spider than blogs and static websites, so you might not see a new thread getting picked up google in a day or two, btw have you submitted a sitemap of your site?