arranged marriages: good or bad

Do arranged marriages have more chnaces to last?

 

Never been a fan, you might end up with a right munter.

 

lol @ munter.

 

On the other hand ... you might get a cracker! (Insert your own image here >>> xxxxxxxx)

 

I have nothing wrong with arrange marriages if they were by choice and not forced by the parents or other people...

However.. do they last longer? depends if there's love or no love.. commitment or not

 

arrange marriages are bad...you gotta love each other if you want to have a good loving life if not then you are screwed

 

There are still nonarranged marriages that have no love trophy wives

 

I have to agree.

If you're an ugly fook then it's a "no lose gamble" but what if you're a real looker and get lumbered with Quasimodo lookalike lol!

 

Very bad. And I should know... I am the product of one

 

All of us must have the freedom to choose who we will marry.

 

It depends. Its very customery in some countries. The people involved to get to choose. If they don't like the person then they will be passed over. The people get time to quiz each other and spend time talking , so they do understand a bit about each other. Its not like the person is blindfolded and shown a prospective partner and has to decide there and then whether to marry or not.

 

I don't know about more chances to last or not, but living with someone that you might not love or might not like it terribly wrong.
A marriage can last longer - under the wrong circumstances.

 

singles is the way going forward

 

I knew you and Gworld were having problems!!!

 

yeah but you can still marry who ever you want

 

Arranged marriages are not good,life is only one time,so i just hope to live someone i love.

 

There is nothing wrong in the arrange marriage provided both parties are willing to do it, not everyone finds love before getting married.


Being in India I have seen many arrange marriages going ever lasting and successful and Love marriages leading to divorce in mere 2-3 years.

 

If my parents were the ones picking out my girlfriends or wife, I would be in deep shit.

 

I second. Bitches...

 

A man should find his own wife and not get his parents to do it for him!
Depends on your culture but it is mostly third world countries and cultures that have arranged marriages. Some of my firends have had these with girls back home but for me it has to be Love first. But that is just me.